So much so that her management has given her an easy way to cut our interview short: Our chat is to take place in an SUV on the way from the Glamour shoot to her apartment, a short drive away. But she keeps talking — candidly and often hilariously, and instead of stopping at her front door, she has her driver circle the block again and again, and we talk more.
What comes through more than anything is a tale of transformation: In Feburuary 2009, Rihanna endured the abuse of Chris Brown and the subsequent gossip frenzy. It was painful, she tells me, to lose control of her story and her image in that way; determined not to let that happen again, she has since reemergerd as the architect of her own fascinating comeback. On her self-revealing albums Rated R and Loud, on Twitter (and, as of mid-July, the most popular female on Facebook), in dramatic fashion choices and in interviews like this one, Rihanna has reinvented herself by becomes more, well, herself. “My whole life changed a couple years ago. That’s when I decided to let my guard down completly, she says sipping a Corona as the city scrolls by her tinted window. “There’s freedom in honesty. If you just face it today, tomorrow you can move on to something else.” Here’s Rihanna, very honestly.
Glamour: I wanted to show you this list: total number-one hits. You’ve had 10, and you’re the youngest artist to ever hit that mark — you topped Mariah Carey. Plus, you did it faster than any solo artist in Billboard’s history.
Rihanna: That’s kind of amazing, damn. I’ve never actually seen this list laid out like this. It’s kind of mind-blowing. I try to just be very, very apperciative.
Glamour: Can you top the Beatles record?
Rihanna: I’m heading there apparently [laughs] If I fall short, I’m still in good company.
Glamour: Your style has gotten more aggressive as your music has. Do you think of the two together in that way?
Rihanna: Absoulutely, and I don’t think of one without the other. My music definitely determines the direction we’re gonna move in. It’s like music, fashion, hair, makeup – that order.
Glamour: There are so many pop stars who blow up and then lose control. With you, from the moment you chopped your hair off, you were saying “No, I’m in control of what I’m doing.”
Rihanna: In the very beginning of my career, it was really strict for me. I couldn’t wear pink or red lipstick; it was just bizarre. We had a young fan base, and they were trying to keep me “fresh”. But I just really wanted to be myself. I wanted to be sassy, the attitude, all these things I am.
Glamour: Your sound keeps evolving too, and your lyrics keep getting more complicated and raw.
Rihanna: It was important for me to grow. Good Girl Gone Bad was the first time I really took the reins in my career creatively. Then Rated R came after that, and that’s where I realized, OK, my fans love the music; now I need to get a little deep with them, get a little more vulnerable, open up.
Glamour: That shift to more personal songs happened after everything with Chris Brown, and around the same time you went on Twitter and developed a different connection with your fans.
Rihanna: Definitely. That’s why I started Twitter. I was like, “Twitter is so dumb– why would I want anybody to know anything more about me?” But it was easy for my fans to believe everything else they were hearing about me — sites, blogs, rumors — because they weren’t really hearing much from me directly. Now they don’t believe the rumors anymore, because they know me.
Glamour: When you followed Chris Brown on Twitter, everyone freaked out and you jumped in with “It’s…twitter, not the altar!” What was that about?
Rihanna: That’s something people would love to make into more than it actually is, and I think that’s just something I’m gonna have to live with for the rest of my life, unfortunately.
Glamour: There’s a lyrics from Rated R that I love: “While you’re getting your cry on, I’m getting my fly on.” That struck me as the ultimate retail-therapy lyrics.
Rihanna: You’re right. It’s retail therapy for sure, but it’s also a very mean line, very cocky, very arrogant. It’s in part a character.
Glamour: It seems like when guys play characters — like Eminem in your controversial song together, “Love The Way You Lie”, about an abusive couple — nobody thinks that’s the real Eminem. But it does seem like when you do a song like that, everyone thinks that the real Rihanna.
Rihanna: Absolutely, and I’m very careful about the lyrics I sing because of stuff like that. Rated R was the album that became really real, very honest. After that, it’s hard to go back to doing songs that are complete fiction. There was no going back.
Glamour: I’ve heard you say that the dramatic lyrics of “S&M”, your megahit, are both metaphorical and literal.
Rihanna: Yeah! I had no idea how close the song “S&M” was to me until maybe five months ago. When I was singing it, it was a fun song, and I directed it at my love-hate relationship with the media, but it went so much further than that, and I didn’t even realize it. I started putting pieces of the puzzle together, seeing how it related to my childhood and how it affected my adult life.
Glamour: You’re talking of your father? [Ronald Fenty had substance-abuse problems and left Rihanna's home by the time she was a teenager]
Rihanna: I would say my relationship with my father has had a biger impact on me more than I knew. Even the things that I love, the things I am attracted to in pople. A lot of it stems from things that I’ve seen in my childhood.
Glamour: Does that mean you naturally look for trouble? You’re drawn to drama?
Rihanna: Yes and no. I hate drama, but at the same time nothing bothers me more than when life’s perfect. And that’s the sick part. I just love a challenge, whether it’s a relationship, my career, clothing…Like, getting dressed, I want to pick the most bizare pair of shorts so I can figure out how to make it look right, or work an outfit that will make people go, “What the hell is she wearing?” You know, whatever it is, a challenge is just thrilling for me.
Glamour: You said that as a girl, when you stuff going on with your family, you would sing along to Destiny’s Child and Mariah albums. What else?
Rihanna: Celine Dion, Whitney Houston.
Glamour: Now all these impressionable young girls are singing your songs. Which do you hope they’re singing?
Rihanna: “Fire Bomb” is one of my favorite songs. It kills me I never released it as a single. It’s not the most postive message; it’s just honest. It’s about wanting revenge, because you just feel like no one can understand what you’re feeling unless they burn the way you burned. And that was at a time when I didn’t really want to be angry but I couldn’t help it, and “Fire Bomb” was like that therapeutic song for me.
Glamour: In the last two albums, you’re open about how messy life gets.
Rihanna: I think honesty is the ultimate liberation in life. People want to shy away from the truth and keep sweeping it under the rug. But after a while, you just pick up the rug and there’s way too much dirt, so you might as well just be up front about it. If you just face it today, then tommorow you can move on to something else. It just reminds me of 8 Mile, where Eminem rapped every dis they could say about him. It gives you that freedom, because what are they going to say about you now?
Glamour: In the “S&M” video, there are hateful words coming across the screen.
Rihanna: That was me mking fun of those absurd things that I’ve heard and read about myself.
Glamour: One of those words is slut. That seems like something teenaged girls can identify with – how if a woman has sex and it gets gossiped about, she’s suddenly a slut.
Rihanna: I wouldn’t want to promote girls having sex. But the reality is, it’s happening, and they’re just a little too young to understand how careful they need to be. That’s a big battle with me, because I’m 23, and a lot of my fans are eight years younger than I am, so there’s a bit of a tug-of-war there. I want to set the right example and at the the same time, live my life. So I kind of let go of that and was just really honest. I feel like pop stars can’t be rockstar anymore, because they have to be just role models., and it takes the fun out of it for everyone, because we just want to have with art.
Glamour: The head of XL Recordings, Richard Russel, who is also Adele’s boss, called music videos like “S&M” “faux porn”.
Rihanna: [Laughs.] Faux Pron? Has he ever seen porn? If he feels liek that, thanks. I mean, s–t, I’ll take it as a compliment. That was just a smoch on the cheek, but if he got a boner? Then you’re welcome.
Glamour: Ha! Let’s break your song “S&M” down. “Sticks and Stone may break my bones, but whips and chains excite me”
Rihanna: I’m just making fun of blogs and rumors. It used to really bother me. Now it’s like “They called me a whore on that site yesterday, and today they’re calling me an idiot — not so bad!” It’s not acceptable, but there’s nothing I can do about it.
Glamour: Ok, that’s the metaphor, on the other level, you’re also straight-up talking about sex. What’s the literal meaning to you? Do you like dominant guys?
Rihanna: I absolutely do prefer a dominant guy. I play a very dominant role in my life, in every other aspect of it. And I like to feel like a lady still, at some point. I feel like that’s the time when a guy really gets to be the man, and I get to be the woman. And if I’m being a man in the bedroom too, there’s nothing really in it for me.
Glamour: As a role model, is that hard to say?
Rihanna: Yeah it is, but here I am speaking as 23-year-old, saying that I engage in adult behavior.
Glamour: In your 2009 interview with Glamour, you said you didn’t realize how much your decision might affect your fans.
Rihanna: It was definitely a big wake-up call to realize the impact I had on woman. It also made me feel a lot close to them. We live different lives, but we have a lot of the same expereiences. They trust the things I say because it’s coming from a peer, as opposed to be a parent. And sometimes you have to put on your role model hat…They know you’re just as rebellious as they are, so if you say something wrong, they know it’s wrong for sure.
Glamour: I was trying to understand the difference between Gaga’s Little Monsters and the Rihanna Navy — the names you gave your fan bases. She calls herself the Mother Monster. I can’t ever see you saying you’re the mother figure.
Rihanna: No because I don’t look at them as followers under myself. We’re peers. They’re right here with me. I need them more than they need me. I need their feedback, their honesty, their support. Without that, it’s pointless. I respect them very much.
Glamour: I interviewed actor Taylor Kitsch, and he said you were so badass in Battleship, doing your own stunts, “annihilating everything in your way.”
Rihanna: That does make me sound badass. Taylor is great. I didn’t know anything about acting: I was just going in there, fingers crossed. And Peter Berg is awesome. He’s a psycho, which works for me. I get along well with psychos. I want to do more films, for sure.
Glamour: Let’s talk about competition. There’s a tight pack, right?
Rihanna: There is a pack. There’s Katy Perry, Lady Gaga, Beyonce..who else? There’s Ke$ha defintely. Woman are definitely dominating music right now, and that’s because we are competitive beings. I feel like music hasn’t been this exiciting in awhile.
Glamour: You and Katy Perry are friends, right? you there her bachelorette party when she married Russel Brand. And you’re competing. Are you “frenemies”?
Rihanna: No [Laughs.] Katy is like, the ****. Honestly, I really love the girl. And when I met her, it was at a time when I wasn’t really talking to females besides the women I work with and my best friend. I’ve always been like that, my whole teenage life, till now.
Glamour: Your friends are mostly men?
Rihanna: All my friends are guys, to be honest. But when I met her, it was such a breath of fresh air. I just couldn’t believe this chick had no edit button. She was everything I wanted to be at that time, because I was still editing myself and not that open. My whole life changed a couple years ago, and that’s when I left my guard down completely…But Katy and Lady Gaga came out of the gate the way they think, the way they wanna dress, the way they wanna speak.
Glamour: You’re competitive with them, but there’s respect in the game.
Rihanna: Absolutely. I would only look at them as competition if I really admire them. These women are real competition.
I think people are getting their panties in a knot! Look at that grin on her face. The girl is clearly drinking, dancing and having fun in a riotous atmosphere. As has been said, it's carnival, from what I understand this is pretty par for the course. Beyond that, I don't see anything much more unsavory than the kind of stuff you see at clubs all the time. Has no one ever danced a little dirty here? Come on, loosen up! Sheesh.
IA. I laughed at the person saying she should act like a "lady". Women are so brainwashed in this society its ridiculous. Its not even as if she randomly did this. They do this at the carnival and its normal.
Anyways i love that white bikini and that glamour shoot is one of the hottest ones I have ever seen!
This is just getting ridiculous.So apparently the "normality" of an action is based on the number of people that do it ? Come on now,let's be serious.Do you actually think that bending over (half naked ) to some guy crotch is a classy and normal behaviour,because it's carnival and everybody does it ? Please stop.
I could care less where the hell she is,this is just not something a woman should do.That's all.Now everybody has it's own way of having fun.And that's great but stop acting like this is something she should be praised for or pride of.Because really,this is not.
There's a line between owning your sexuality and be sexy and simply acting distastefully just for the sake of it.And she crossed it.That's the point that some people here were/are trying to make,I believe.So,stop acting like you don't understand.I still love her and I'm not categorizing her by any means.God knows how many unclassy things have done (while drunk) in my life.That's why I will never judge ...
Moving on ... I love this white swimsuit and I'm not a big fan of her new weave.The red will be missed