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08-07-2012
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I recently received a warning about me attacking another member on a thread. I'm fine with that, as some may have perceived it as that, but I never deliberately intended for my post to be an attack on someone.
What makes me absolutely upset is that I constantly Read some members attacking others in other thread and no one does anything about it. Where are the moderators when it comes to patrolling the threads? It's as if you guys are targeting me. I just read someone attack somebody in te Katie Homes and Tom Cruise divorce thread and another member attack somebody else in the "Hedi Slimane for YSL" thread and once again I don't see any moderator do anything about it.
members are allowed to respectfully disagree with each other. we don't allow personal attacks however.

if you see these or any other posts violating our Community Rules please use the report this post function. you'll see it on every post here.

you are correct we can't be everywhere at once.

i just checked our records and i see that you've never used this feature. are you aware of it?

please try it next time.

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members are allowed to respectfully disagree with each other. we don't allow personal attacks however.

if you see these or any other posts violating our Community Rules please use the report this post function. you'll see it on every post here.

you are correct we can't be everywhere at once.

i just checked our records and i see that you've never used this feature. are you aware of it?

please try it next time.
I'm aware of it now lol
Thanks!

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^In those situations when you are aware of a situation please use the report post feature and it will be dealt with as a matter of urgency, as Lucy said, we can't be everywhere so we do appreciate members reporting posts so we can handle situations we aren't aware of .

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^In those situations when you are aware of a situation please use the report post feature and it will be dealt with as a matter of urgency, as Lucy said, we can't be everywhere so we do appreciate members reporting posts so we can handle situations we aren't aware of .
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One thing I'd like to point out to all members, when reporting a post for rudeness or disrespect : it's only against the rules to say something negative about other members or their opinions.

It's actually OK to have a negative opinions about a model, a celebrity or a designer's or editor's work .... unless you keep harping on it to the point that it's irritating or causing arguments among the members. So please do not report the occasional negative opinon ... each member is entitled to have one and may explain why.

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One thing I'd like to point out to all members, when reporting a post for rudeness or disrespect : it's only against the rules to say something negative about other members or their opinions.

It's actually OK to have a negative opinions about a model, a celebrity or a designer's or editor's work .... unless you keep harping on it to the point that it's irritating or causing arguments among the members. So please do not report the occasional negative opinon ... each member is entitled to have one and may explain why.
I just received an official warning due to saying a dress was not cute. Other posters on that same thread have said and has been saying far worse, yet I was the one targeted and post deleted. I also feel this mod has a vendetta against me, is there a system to have this complaint filed and looked into by someone else? I love it here and have been a member for a number of years, but this mod is making it not much fun. Thanks.

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I just received an official warning due to saying a dress was not cute. Other posters on that same thread have said and has been saying far worse, yet I was the one targeted and post deleted. I also feel this mod has a vendetta against me, is there a system to have this complaint filed and looked into by someone else? I love it here and have been a member for a number of years, but this mod is making it not much fun. Thanks.
You will not know if other members have also had posts deleted or received reminders or warnings, as this is kept confidential. However, if you feel you are being singled out, you can contact any of the mod team leaders, or you can contact the Help Desk using the Contact Us link at the bottom of every forum page.

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I don't understand how I received a warning for bringing the "slut shaming" issue to light and actually agreeing with someone AND not targeting anyone yet there are consequences? I'm referring to the Vogue/Kim K thread. There's people talking about kim's weight, her being a "porn star" and not classy (It's off topic too so shouldn't that be removed" and yet I'm receiving a warning? Okay.

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Just took a quick look at what happened and while there are comments in the thread that are hardly respectful and I can understand why you were upset, instead of setting the example of the level of respect you expect, you aggravated the situation by taking the insults from celebrity to tfs member, which is always more inflammatory. We always recognize the effort some members do to preserve an atmosphere of respect when things are getting out of control, by contributing with something thoughtful or at least alerting the mod team by using the report post feature... these are both effective ways to 'get back' at negative comments, by being constructive and not destructive, unfortunately calling another participant a piece of **** falls into the latter.

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So you know .... "slut shaming" in itself is not against the rules, actually. It might be off topic depending on the forum and the thread or if some member keeps harping on it for pages and pages ... we might advise them to knock it off. But they are allowed to post an opinion, positive or negative about any model or celebrity.


However ..... directing an insult at another member (for any reason, deserved or not) is definitely against the rules here ... it always has been. It's one of the quickest ways to loose membership privileges.

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