Thanks for your advice...cold water and a brave face it is. we had a brunch and that why i wanted to know what ii could do,,but i really didnt give a damn what i looked like .. well i gues sthis thread is done hehe ..thanks again
after crying i always put preparation h on my eyes. it reduces the puffiness. it is actually used for hemmorhoids, but works well for puffy eyes.
it is very greasy so i only put a little amount. you wouldn't need too much anyway.