She doesn't care if her hair gets f'd up in the process? We must not have been watching the same clip. She's always playing with her hair to give it just the right amount of tousel, popping out that one mouth-open, under-the-lashes, come-hither stare (you all know which one) that she seems to love... To me, she always seems hellbent on looking aloof, above it all. But I guess other people see differently.
She's not mainstream, that's for sure... but I guess I find her non-mainstream "sneer" to be just arrogant and second-hand embarrassing... I guess it's just different strokes for different folks!
Yes, so what seems insincere at best and revolting at worst to you seems like an irresistible merge between Sid Vicious and Marilyn Monroe to me.