RedandNavy, I have my fingers crossed for you

Hopefully you will have much better luck than mine

I went to two Williams-Sonomas yesterday to get a replacement present for the shoes that didn't work out. I so remember why I get my shopping done early

I have one more errand today, hopefully the mob scene won't be too bad. I really want a magazine from the bookstore, but I was unwilling (unable?) to face another crammed parking lot and mob scene. It's nearly impossible for me to imagine that there are people who thrive on that kinda thing ...
mordant, I would definitely get to J Crew and see how they really fit! J Crew doesn't fit me at all ... as you know, Michelle Obama wears it a lot and there are tons of pix of her in it, but I don't think she wears the pants?
As far as interviewing, I (fan of separates that I am) put together unmatched suits. I also like the fact that doing that allows me a bit more scope ... I really hate the cookie cutter aspect of suits. Do you have either a jacket or skirt or pants that would work?
Couple suggestions for the soft addiction ... I would see if you can't substitute something that's actually beneficial, and also makes you feel good. Two things that work for me are meditation and
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