Yes, it doesn't sound like a misunderstanding to me. Disneyland has been doing Gay Days since forever, it's an established part of the calendar. How does everyone planning Miley's B-day bash manage to forget that in order for it to become a misunderstanding? Especially since Gay Days is about a week long, not some random single day celebration?
It's not a travesty but it's pretty stupid on Disney's part. There will always be gays while Miley is at best 5 years away from a Britney crotch meltdown. Oh well

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