This is a great topic, seems I agree the most w/ softie on this one... everything I was going to say has been covered by her so I'll just ramble a bit
. Honestly, I dress for the approval of my girlfriends than guys at work or even my boyfriend. So I guess if I'm dressing to impress I'd be in something that exudes 'I am put together' 'I am not trying hard to look this way' and frankly 'this is me'. I have gotten lots of compliments from guys at work and in my personal life for looking chic but not over the top. I don't think you have to dress overtly sexy to get attention... I prefer to demand attention with my actions.