Ok so i was wearing my hair in a really short pixie type cut, almost a year ago i decided to grow it long. It feels like it's taking forever, and every stage has just been BAD. I just don't know what to do with it, i feel fed up, have looked at tons of pictures and just can't find anything i can do. My hair is EXTREMELY thick, with an annoying kink at the ends so it just sticks up everywhere! I had one haircut throughout the growing-out process and it made it worse as it was a disaster mullet cut with loads of layers. At the moment it looks disjointed, kind of like a Rachel / early Friends haircut= Very Ugly! The longest layer just touches my shoulders. Can anybody help me? Please?