I am 19 and only 4'11. It only came back recently from my bloodtest that my testosterone level is rather high for a female, and reserch shows that testosterone can block growth. (All that milk and exercise for nothing!) Not to say that I hate myself, but I am terribly uncomfortable with being short. I hate that everyone who meets me always trying to measure me against them, or anyone they could think of. They assume they have the right to ask for my height, make comment about my height, and ask for my age. I work in a very competitive enviroment, and trust me, it is five times harder for people like me. It also seem like because I'm short, people tend to not think of me as a person. I recently signed up for fencing class (and I had been fencing my whole life due to my grandfather, but I actually want to take formal training) and the guy looked at me like: are you sure you can do it? I won't even start on finding clothes. I have an hour glass figure but because of my height, my legs look like big turkey legs.
Another thing is that I am an art major. I carry a lot of stuff, and quite frankly, being taller would do me so much good because I would be more capable of carring a tripod, drawing board, etc. I don't like getting special treatments because of my height. So imagine people having to move away or checking with me to see if "can you see?...can you reach?"
The respect issue is...nvm. I hate to say it, but it's true that people will tend to act carelessly around you if you appear to be short. Also, shortness is always "cute", not beautiful. I'm not a girl anymore, and having someone telling me I'm cute is irritating. I used to be a face model, but I was unable to actually become a model due to my height sufficiency. It's not a problem since I never thought about actually working as a model. But it is hard living in a height-obsessed culture. They make pants for tall girls, but for girls who are petit, the pants are still too long. Plus, it is worse if you have curves and you're short, because...good luck! The best option is tailor clothes.
There are tall girls who would rather be shorter, but they don't want to be short. I rather be a giraff than a dwarf because I hate being made fun of. Especially since I don't know how to tell them it is very rude and inconsiderate. They always laugh it off as in like :"What? Why do you even care?" Honestly, this is the same people who would get offended if I say that I don't like their makeup brand.