Boutiques:
Seven on Lower East Side (Orchard and Houston) - Raf Simons, Gaspard Yurkievich, Margiela, Xavier Delcour, V.Branquinho, IoC, etc...
A in SoHo - (125 Crosby Street) - Ann Dem, Les Hommes, Rick Owens, Raf Simons, Thomas Engel Hart, Carpe Diem/Linea, etc...
Nom de Guerre on Bway/Bleecker - Margiela, Yoko Deveraux, etc...
Steven Alan in Tribeca (Franklin st, off of Church) - his line, Junya Watanabe, CDG, Rogan, Levi's, etc...
Opening Ceremony in Soho (Crosby and Howard) - too many local designers to list, they carry Cloak.
Comme des Garcons in Chelsea - W.22nd and 10th. The store is just so cool, it's worth checking out the interior. It's a cool block overall - tons of galleries. Balenciaga is on the same block. Stop by the Wild Lily Tea room (almost across from CDG) for a cup'o'tea
Restaurants:
Mrkt in the meatpacking district - West 14th/9th. This block is a must stop anyway, it's the hottest thing right now (Jeffrey, McQueen, McCartney,etc. all on one block).
Bar89 in Soho - it's a lounge/bar/rest - good basic food/drink, and check out their bathrooms.
Grey Dog's Coffee - near my work in West Village (Carmine st.) - best place for good coffee, great cheap food and nonpretencious atmosphere.
L'ecole in Soho on Bway/Grand - it's a new must on my list. It's a part of French Culinary Institute and the gradutating students/alumnis cook there. It's an incredible bargain, $30 for a 4 course prefix menu. Make reservations.
I'm not into clubs anymore, like I said, maybe Sugo can recommend you something. Check out APT (aka Apartment) on West.13th (one block down from Mrkt) - it's a happening place. We'll be there this Sat. throwing our (belated) 1year anniversary party.
P.S. Yea, I know, I should work as an NYC guide to the jetsetters. Maybe I would, if they weren't such assholes
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