Daphne is one of my style icons and so I think it appropriate that my first post is in her thread!
I went to see her last year when she spoke in Harvey Nichols in Dublin. She was interviewed by Colin McDowell and there was also a Q & A session towards the end. She has a quiet voice and despite repeated requests from the audience she kept forgetting to angle the mic towards her mouth, which meant most of the audience couldn't hear a word she said! I have bat-like hearing however, so I was OK! She's quite petite and was wearing a black Gareth Pugh dress, the ubiquitous stripper heels (which is the only part of her look I dislike) and was of course dripping in diamonds. The talk wasn't massively informative and she seems quite shy and unsure of herself. I think her clothing is almost an armour to keep the world away. During the Q and A I asked her which designers she thought were worth investing in for the future, investment shopping if you will! She couldn't think of any (or just didn't want to give her secrets away) but said she'd try and think of some and I could ask her afterwards in the bar, which I thought was very sweet.
I think she's an interesting woman, obviously well educated, curious, intelligent and stylish, however like many on this thread I do get a sense of loneliness or alienation from her, which makes me a bit sad for her.
As a funny aside, I brought my friend with me to the talk and she said "I presume she's dyed her hair to look like a pint of Guinness?"! I had never thought of that before but it's so true!!!!