Whitelinen
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That's a very good point.
WhiteLinen said:Very off-topic, but it sounds odd that 16-year-olds have cars. I know it's the way in the US, but here it's a different thing (you can't get a driver's license at that age). Sorry, very off-topic.
.why_fashion said:As a just turned fifteen kid myself
I don't want designer bags, I carry different vintage handbags all the time, ROOTS school bag for books. I don't see any reason why a kid needs a designer bag at such a young age. Don't even get me started on the real ones with huge logos, waste of money.
EVEN if you carry a real one with your own money from starbucks job, I think it's pathetic. You wasted your youthful time when you are supposed to study, to work and buy a designer bag that dosen't match your status or economic level. With the student occupation and starbucks job, I bet you can not afford much good quality clothes, so most ppl will assume your bag is fake anyways.
Money from parents ones are just spoiled kids, Goerge W. Bush type of kid. I disdain those kids.
Here in toronto, my school, countless girls with american eagle or holister outfit carrys a guess bag mostly or chanel. They love their bag to death, they carry it with them even to the washroom everytime in the middle of class. I have nothing to say, but pathetic as in their taste level also.
I also utterly DO NOT understand the whole purpose of collecting designer bags.
strawberry daiquiri said:i find this trend particularly ignoring.
it's become too common here to see young girls but all their 'style' into one tiny, obvious handbag... to wear it with the latest preppy pastel wardrobe as dictated by 'friends'. i don't know, i think it's the most offensive kind of brain-washing when you put so much of someone else's money into an item you like for 1) a logo and 2) the idea that brandishing it now means you're the most powerful teen on public transport off to private school.
winterinjuly said:but how do you ensure that your 14 yearold daughter understands that she is worth more than her designer hand bag? what are the values instilled in the child that makes this seem important. i am not trying to say that because you own a designer bag that your automatically vapid but i think that there is a major connection between items owned by a young girl, her ken and her work ethic. maybe i am just to old and bitter but there seems to be something wrong with a society that places more importance on material possesions than truly developing a personality. Does a purse or jacket define who we are becoming?
WhiteLinen said:Relax, it's only clothes. I'd buy a bag to carry my stuff around. It would express my personality because I'd like the look of it, but I see no link between developing a personality and owning a designer bag. What would a piece of clothing take away from my developing personality? Maybe in the occassion that I would be buying designer because everyone else wears it , but other than that, I see no harm in it.
If you learn that money does not grow on trees and that you have to work in order to get these things, there's nothing wrong in my opinion.