esmereldagrubb said:Roppal,
You are exactly right , i am just asking to be upset by coming into this forum. But thats all part of my problem, torturing myself like that, i am obssessed with Hana's thinness in a way, because i find it frustrating that everyone thinks she looks great and deep down in my old anorexic brain of mine so do i, but at the same time i guess i am just one day wishing to come in here and see that to change. THat maybe one day i will see Hana not looking so thin, because i do think she is gorgeous. I really am not trying to break her down, just the ideal she represents. I am going to not say anything anymore....just keep it to myself i guess, i dont mean to upset you roppal. I just have an unhealthy obsession.and for the record, if you go into the other forums, i am very vocal about alot of other model's extreme thinness ( including some you mentioned.) I just hope i can let it go one day, as it is obvious i still have a long way to go in my own personal battle. Sorry again
I mean...surely it isn't a laughing matter? If your concern for Hana was genuine and based on your own personal struggles with your weight, I would have imagined that those who come here to belittle that struggle with cheap shots would be something you wouldn't entertain? Telling a person you perceive as having an eating disorder to eat a burger, eat some biscuits' is on a apr with telling a serious depressive 'to just get over it'. It's incredibly patronising and lacks understanding.Roppal, hun, i find these "insensative" comments somewhat humorous merely because it is true that i have developed a very dry sense of humor i dont expect you to understand, as it may seem insensative to someone who doesnt understand how i am, i tend to make light of serious issues, especially when they have the potential to be very personally painful to me.If i didnt i don t think i would be alive still today, but thats how i deal with it.roppal222 said:Anorexia/weight issues are a serious matter and I have always presumed that your criticism of Hana is bourne out of concern perhaps, yet when someone makes a patronising comment such as 'I love to eat choclate biscuits when reading this thread' you seem to laugh at it and find it funny!
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esmereldagrubb said:
Her deep tan throws people off but her face is incredibly thin as is her waist, but it's just an example of how people see others differently. It's not for me to constantly criticise and constantly protest on what people's preferences are - what your preferences are. I guess we are both different in our approaches and because you are coming from a background based on your own personal issues, I really don't know what more I can say to you.Funny you mentioned Gisele and her being on the dangerously thin side, as she was the first model i became "obsessed" with and criticzed in the beggining of my illness much like i am feeling towards Hana right now. Then it was Karolina........roppal222 said:Fair enough, how you deal with things is up to you, even if I don't understand it, but going back to the Hana issue, I seriously think it's different strokes for different folks. What one person finds attractive, another person doesn't. I noticed from another thread that you find Gisele to be one of the most beautiful women, and here I think she is also a model who borders dangerously on the very thin side.
As harsh as it may sounds, looking at the general response on this forum, I doubt you'll get the change in opinion of Hana that you seem so desparate to generate. It really is each to their own.
Gisele gets praised a lot, maybe too much, and as pretty as I think the girl is, I don't think she has the curvy figure people claim her to have. Far from it to be honest. For me, the curviest models would be Fernanda and Isabelli.
Yea, exactly, Gisele is far from "curvy" like everyone says, take away those breasts and she would have no curves whatsoever......at least we see that the same way.roppal222 said:See, that's my point. Although I find that Hana does need some extra pounds, I think Gisele has a much much thinner and gaunt looking face than Hana, take her tan away, Gisele can look ill sometimes in my eyes , also I consider Karolina to have thin legs too....yet others don't see it that way at all.
People really do see things differently I guess!
