My nephew (Need advice pls!)

[mojorojoe]

I've never posted here but I love all forums I think they're great. Anyways my names Joey (yes I'm a girl!) and I have a question.

I have a 14 year old nephew.(I'm 19) He borrowed some of my manalos for a project and then returned them and then I thought nothing of it. But now he keeps asking me if he can borrow more of my shoes. What would you do? I don't know if hes got some weird fetish or hes really doing stuff with them. Could someone please help!!!!!

Thx

 

[Guessgirl96]

I wouldn't let him borrow them. They're expenisve, and theres nothing a 14 year old boy should need manolos for

 

[vintage_princess]

Dont jump to conclusion just yet..maybe he really does just want them for project work. Ask him what sort of project it is and casually whoever looks after him if hes acting unusual or not.

 

[PrincessImp.]

^ Yea I agree with vintage.

If he does well in this project or subsquently in that subject you can always ask your uncle to get you new Manolos for your effort

 

[shoesexy]

It's not that unusual for some boys/men to develop a foot fetish or shoe fetish. He's at the age for sexual "discovery" and may be shy around girls, too. Personally, I'd tell him he could no longer borrow my shoes in a way that does not embarrass him---just say "no" with a smile. He can find other more social ways to pursue his interest and there won't be any unspoken "issues" between you and him in the future.

 

[xaphod]

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[mojorojoe]

Thanks so much! You guys are awesome. I'll just find out nicely whats up.