she looked so ridiculously hot in that performance it was off. the. chain.
i think perhaps due to her age and the fact that she's a 'grown woman', married with a kid, etc. -- she can do this kind of really heightened sexualized performance and it doesn't remotely come off as desperate or self-exploitation or whatever. she really seems to have ownership over her sensuality and it's less about showing off for the pleasure of some man and more about her enjoying her own sex appeal.