I dont think passing along any notes to kiss her a.s.s are necessary, she can handle some 'criticism' which I dont even think was happening here, no one used the worst words like 'ugly' or 'hideous' as regarding those pics....I think its brave and cool wearing the contacts, they're of course going to warrant some comments, but no need to grovel/suck up to her because at the end of the day something on the net about her contacts shouldnt be bothering her so, but apparently it has. She, along with anyone who wears something 'not of the norm' should expect reactions whether externally (I get them a lot from just walking around in riding boots and jodphurs and an open shirt) or through the grapevine. But she shouldnt let it get to her.