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'ENOUGH IS ENOUGH' - clothes acquisition, hysteria and the perfect wardrobe

i try to keep something like this chart (attached below) in mind when i want to curb my spending on clothes..
except for me, i wouldn't be saving for a kitchen renovation. :P

maybe for a better item of clothing that'll last longer and be more satisfying.
or for summer traveling.

(you have to click on the attachment to read the text.)

[nytimes.com]
 

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oh dear...'shopping begets shopping'....how true...
and you can see how much i have 'begotten' recently if you just check the shopaholics thread...

:ninja:...:lol:...

shirlee...

i think that sweater is cute...
i have found that you can never have enough black cardigans or grey cardigans...
:innocent:...
 
chrissy..STOP WITH THE UGGS>>>!!!
come on...
:lol:...

i know, i know!
i'm so ashamed :ninja:

i haven't worn them in over a week!
except for when i ran out to the pharmacy this morning :doh:

when i find the perfect pair of warm black boots to get me through boston winters i feel confident that i will be able to retire them completely ^_^
 
stealthmodesteph 'Shopping begets shopping' is so true for me! Thank you for posting this. It gives me something to think about...

Last year, I went on this savings kick and put away a nice chunk of money between January and August. Then on one Saturday in late August after a particularly stressful week, I went shopping...and it was all over. Over the next several weeks, I spent all my savings, and since then more. I have quite a little piece of debt to pay back now. I have some GORGEOUS things, and an invigorated interest in my appearance, but I sure wish I were a little more sensible about how I came to this place.
 
i want to see some of these GORGEOUS things you bought...:woot:...


:bounce::bounce::bounce:


* *hangs head in shame...**
yes- i know i am an enabler...

:ninja:
 
i want to see some of these GORGEOUS things you bought...:woot:...

You asked for it, well here's some of it...

BAGS

Miu Miu Pleated Tote – Black Leather with Gold Rivets
Prada Ombre Clutch – Grey/Plum
YSL Large Tribute – Black Patent Embroidered Croc
YSL Large Tribute – Plum Patent
YSL Med Tribute – Leopard

http://www.thefashionspot.com/forums/showpost.php?p=4002209&postcount=1151

Balenciaga Saddle Bag – Forest Green
Anya Hindmarch Plaited Bag – Silver

http://www.thefashionspot.com/forums/showpost.php?p=4002239&postcount=1152


SHOES

All by Christian Louboutin...

http://www.thefashionspot.com/forums/showpost.php?p=4022733&postcount=10523

http://www.thefashionspot.com/forums/showpost.php?p=4009458&postcount=10444

http://www.thefashionspot.com/forums/showpost.php?p=4009474&postcount=10445

Margiela Flats
http://www.thefashionspot.com/forums/showpost.php?p=4012591&postcount=6


Not yet pictured:

BAGS
YSL Med Downtown – Red Patent (AWESOME!!!)
Marni Balloon Bag – Black PVC/Leather
Marni Drop Bag – Green Technical Nylon / Leather

SHOES
YSL Black Ankle Boots (Wood Heel)
YSL Grey Croc Charlotte Pump (Wood Heel)
C. Louboutin Declic 130 Black
C. Louboutin Caracolo Nude
C. Louboutin Very Prive Black/Blue Graffiti

:blush: :blush: :blush: :blush: :blush: :blush:
 
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jetset i can't help but applaud you :clap:
if you were going to go nuts with the shopping at least you did a fantastic job at it :heart:

i love that you chose a lot of unique pieces (those bright blue louboutins!) and some of the bags as well..

well done ;)
 
:buzz:

WOW jetset...:lol:...

i esp love that miu miu bag and the moc croc YSL...:heart::heart::heart:

i have to agree with chrissy...
job well done miss!!!.......
SO many really great pieces...


:clap:...

*did you get any clothes to go with these lovelies???
or do you have to go naked in order to afford such a collection...;)


:innocent:...
 
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did you get any clothes to go with these lovelies???
or do you have to go naked in order to afford such a collection...;)

:flower: :flower: :flower: :flower:
Thank you all for your sweetness! :blush: I must say I l:heart:ve everything I bought, so it's hard to be sorry, and I use almost everything.

And don't think I haven't tried every single pair of my shoes on in the buff! :blush: :lol:

As for clothes... I bought a beautiful Helmut Lang coat. I've worn it nearly everyday this winter! ;)

As a whole though, clothes are just not as easy, so I'm less tempted. My body-type is a little tough to fit. :doh: I do need to spend some time upgrading my clothes wardrobe, though. :rolleyes:

I took sewing classes last year and made a bunch of skirts and tops (and a beautiful plum cape that I lost at LAX promptly after finishing :cry:).

I haven't done much sewing lately, and I really want to get back to it!
 
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well...
at least you have a good coat....
that's an important staple...

:flower:...
 
haha - this thread is turning into clothes p*rn - again!
was secret shopaholics originally about listing your recent buys?

is it guilty pleasure or just straight pleasure.
i would say other people's shopping begets shopping too. when i check out secret shopoholics, it kind of enables me! i can't buy half the high end stuff that regular posters on there buy, but still . . .



i must admit, january is a hard month. nicht money and yet so many sales. i should be saving for baby stuff, but instead i bought a vivienne westwood coat, as it was a quarter of its original price.

in fact, i have used being pregnant as an excuse to buy a whole bunch of new things - jeans, underwear, tops and dresses. of course, you need it to an extent but really, i have gone a bit mad (by my own standards, not anyone (ahem) in this thread!

it was nice though, to put all the stuff i can't wear right now away and just arrange a long rail and drawers with all the stuff i can wear. it actually rejuvenated my daily style to be able to see stuff, make new combinations etc and i started keeping my style diary thing on flickr again (ok -its also to document my pregnancy but when I photograph yourself nearly every day, i make more of an effort.)

although i respect that moving up in terms of quality and style, i don't know if that always has to mean only buying high-end. i still think that the chicest style is a mix between high-end, well-spotted high st and carefully sourced quality vintage. but that's just what rings my bell - i think that's where the real joie de vivre of fashion is.

but i want to be good friends with everything in my wardrobe!
 
Fash ho
I saw your G:heart:RGEOUS Edith & Elle shoes...and they may not have been expensive,
but they have more style than anything I've seen in a while!
Yay for you and your style. :flower:
 
fash...
i hear ya about jan being a tough month....
the sales are SOOOO tempting...

:p

congrats in the little one too...
i had no idea you were expecting...
the westwood coat will be great during and after!..

i do think it is great to reorganize your wardrobe from time to time...
whatever the excuse is...
new season...new purchases...new baby...;)

it does reinvigorate your closet and remind you of some old favourites and maybe some things you have even forgotten about...

i like to do what you described...
pull all the things i am currently 'feeling' into one area of my closet so that is where i always go first when i am getting dressed...

i have recently uncovered some 'buried treasures' actually...:woot:
*some never even worn...
:ninja:

^_^....
 
although i respect that moving up in terms of quality and style, i don't know if that always has to mean only buying high-end. i still think that the chicest style is a mix between high-end, well-spotted high st and carefully sourced quality vintage. but that's just what rings my bell - i think that's where the real joie de vivre of fashion is.

I totally agree with this! Mixing some high-end, high street and vintage is how I like to dress. I always get complimented on my vintage pieces and people think they are high end but little do they know I got them for $3. Style isn't about money- I believe that. A lot of people I see with money sure don't know how to dress with it.

Jan has been an especially hard month for me as I just got back from an expensive vacation, compounded with x-mas presents and participating in a few sales.

I have decided to use 10% of my income to start paying off my credit card debt. I used this method to save for my trip and it worked like a charm. I just deduct a certain percentage of every cheque I get (I work freelance, so the amounts are always different) and put it into a savings account and forget about it. Except it will be harder this time because once I see I have more credit I will be tempted to spend. I would cut up my credit card except for the fact that I know the number and expiry by heart.:blush:
 
I'm really trying to pay down my debt too, it is so hard! I've made a very reasonable budget, so let's hope I can stick to it! :blink:
 
I just have to stay out of the shops. The internet is a temptation too ofcourse, but when I am in a store touching the garment and surrounded by people buying things, I am much more tempted I find.
 
Ahhhhh! Me too! I have just packed up 8 boxed of clothes to give to charity. Much of which does not fit me anymore, but still... must...stop....shopping... :lol:
 

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