i actually work at a fabric store. the best patterns out of all of them are vogue. simplicity, macalls, butterick (although butterick is owned by vogue) are very slopily put together and dont fit good.

vogue has basic couture patterns that specifically show you how to make jackets, dresses, pants, etc...and how to alter them according to size. look under designer sportsware in the vogue catalogue at your local fabric store and it should be in that section. those are fantastic, because they show you couture details and how and where to add darts/seams/hems to alter a pattern to fit.

as far as vintage patterns go, vogue has some, but since i love 1890-1940s fashions, i buy vintage at thrift shops, vintage boutiques, and ebay and either make patterns from them or sometimes you can get really sad, decreped vintage thats falling apart and just buy it cheap to take apart and learn how they did it.
as far as fear goes, what have you got to lose? each thing is only going to be better than the next because you learn so much with sewing, so just think of each project as like a spelling test or something. your not going to get every one, but you'll do better next time because you learn from you mistakes.
i knit too, (not crochet because it takes more yardage of yarn.) vogue knitting magazine is really good for knitwear, and they have crochet stuff in it too. the best book for knitting and crocheting is "the reader digest book of knit and crochet". they sell it at barnes and noble, and its only like $20 or $30 bucks, but is THE best book out on the market. it covers all the basics, with visuals,shows you multiple methods to cast on, bind off, read knit/crochet patterns, and has hundreds of different stitches...it might be called "the readers digest encyclopedia of knit and crochet"...i'll have to double check...but it is definately by R.D. enjoy!! hope all that info. is helpful
