The most I have seen guys wear heels is when they wear cowboy boots. Cowboy boots, even the older styles do have a heel of about 2 inches. Maybe you could look into those... There are also websites where you can have cowboy boots custom made, right down to the height of the heel. That way, you wouldn't have to deal with trouble finding heels that fit in the women's department since many women's shoes are very narrow. I myself have wide feet, and wear stingray cowboy boots. They give me enough of a lift to be comfortable, and feel much better than my BCBG flat heeled (barely any heel) boots.