It takes a lot of practice, Kat.
Off topic ... but for all of you new members ... There's so many features here that are so cool. I'm a mod ... and still I"m learning about new things every day. I just sort of explore all the forums, the sub forums, the controls, read the threads in the help forums. Check out the Give Karma link ... nice way to let someone know you like their post ... and you'll soon be getting Karma back (see "Users CP" to check to see if someone has given you karma). You can link to friends, post personal messages, both private and public, add your own picture in your profile, customize your signature. It's fun and addictive.