The Art of Seduction - what is seductive/sexy to all of you?

[Serena]

Ok, i hope this topic does not offend anyone...but with the latest lingerie trends, i was wondering: what is seductive/sexy to all of you? Do you prefer subtle hints or strong sex appeal when you want to get attention? Also, do you have a "secret weapon", like specific outfit or make-up item or something like that? To whom can you relate, style wise: a Gucci runway model, a coquette from Victorian era, a Victoria Secret girl, Sophie Loren/Bidgit Bardot, Blondie, Jackie O...or someone else?
I like strong sex appeal in others, but my style is less direct, more flirtatious.

 

[LolitaLuxe]

serena you

for me i use hair/make up for sex appeal.
i can be wearing jeans and T's and still feel hot -
guys think so too its all in attitude i think
red lipstick is a must! nars jungle red and urban decay redlight are the hottest red shades i have used- UD redlight is amazingly sexy and strong. thick lashes and slightly smudged eyeliner in a gun metel grey and eye gloss
hair very touchable with waves or straight....

just a loose low cut slinkiy top's also

different fragrencs too

 

[Serena]

Lolita, sexy eyes & nice scent are a must

here are some pics of what i can relate to depending
on a mood

 

[Serena]

or this one....

 

[ignitioned32]

It's all about legs. Sweet (legs) always beats wild or is it wild that . . . oh well.

BTW I also agree sometimes it's about the hair and lips.

 

[charlottesometimes]

Hmmmm....my partner needs no extra encouragement

Seriously though, seduction style for me was always about the hair and make-up - 'bed-hair' and smokey eyes.

 

[Serena]

Originally posted by ignitioned32@Aug 15th, 2003 - 8:56 am
It's all about legs. Sweet (legs) always beats wild or is it wild that . . . oh well.

BTW I also agree sometimes it's about the hair and lips.

having nice legs won't hurt, no doubt
i really like when everything works together, make up & hair, jewelry & clothes & like Lolita mentioned, it's all about the atittude!

 

[paris]

I also believe it's in the attitude!

If I leave a salon and feel like all that attention to my hair adds a bounce in my step...

Or just getting ready, playing some awesome music, meeting friends for dinner, drinks, and such...

Makeup is really fun too!

So for me, it's the ritual of getting ready, the moments, the inspiration that helps kick in that sexy gear... and also all those fantasy of what you want to accomplish, or your sense of adventure... that to me is all part of feeling like the amazing person I want to be

 

[Erin]

sex appeal, I love it!

If I'm going out - I love to wear a pair of snug jeans that fit just *perfectly* all over, especially from the back view. I love tube tops - I love to show off my arms and shoulders.

As far as hair and makeup...I have long blonde hair, so leaving it down is a must. I always curl it - so I have that wild, sexy hair effect - and black eyeliner, baby. Kohl, kohl, kohl. Maybe some fake lashes here and there.

 

[tealady]

Confidence in yourself! It's all about attitude. Feel sexy and you will look sexy and vice versa!

 

[TrailerCouture]

regarding your lingerie question, Ive recently purchased a beautiful sillk blacknight gown with pink lace trimming from victorias secret (on sale for 19.99). I took it to my altier and had a zipper put in for a snug fit. I plan to wear it with a cashmere cuddly wrap sweater and chandelier earings. Now all i need is guts to actually wear it

 

[tealady]

Originally posted by TrailerCouture@Sep 25th, 2003 - 11:13 pm
regarding your lingerie question, Ive recently purchased a beautiful sillk blacknight gown with pink lace trimming from victorias secret (on sale for 19.99). I took it to my altier and had a zipper put in for a snug fit. I plan to wear it with a cashmere cuddly wrap sweater and chandelier earings. Now all i need is guts to actually wear it

See! I told you that confidence is everything!!

 

[pinkcouture]

Its all about your confidence level..the vibe you give off and how you carry yourself. Hair and makeup are important too!

 

[Glamourina]

OK, I have no idea if this topic is in the right place, so if you want to move it, go ahead. Anyway, I'm wondering if anyone else here has trouble pulling off the sexy, bored, supermodel look. Like, I would love to be able to pull on some heels and a tight little dress and go strut like I am the queen of the world, but I feel like I look like a dork when I do. Like, I could never pull off the Victoria's Secret model look, that smoky, come-hither look. I think it's because I'm very young-looking, petite, and I look like a teenybopper, no matter how hard I try to distance myself from it. If I wear something more sophisticated or mature, I feel like I look like a little girl playing dress-up with Mommy's cocktail dress and high heels. Anyone else feel like this?

 

[purplelucrezia]

Originally posted by Glamourina@Apr 15th, 2004 - 10:38 pm
Anyway, I'm wondering if anyone else here has trouble pulling off the sexy, bored, supermodel look

Even the models have trouble sometimes... I say to heck with sexy!

 

[meowmix]

Originally posted by Glamourina@Apr 15th, 2004 - 11:38 pm
OK, I have no idea if this topic is in the right place, so if you want to move it, go ahead. Anyway, I'm wondering if anyone else here has trouble pulling off the sexy, bored, supermodel look. Like, I would love to be able to pull on some heels and a tight little dress and go strut like I am the queen of the world, but I feel like I look like a dork when I do. Like, I could never pull off the Victoria's Secret model look, that smoky, come-hither look. I think it's because I'm very young-looking, petite, and I look like a teenybopper, no matter how hard I try to distance myself from it. If I wear something more sophisticated or mature, I feel like I look like a little girl playing dress-up with Mommy's cocktail dress and high heels. Anyone else feel like this?

YES! I know just how you feel...although I guess sometines I can get away because most Asian women are on the petite side...but I'm only 5'1 with a small build.. and most of the looks i admire suit taller people much better and tend to be rather overwhelming on me (or just plain don't fit!)...so I stay away from 'trendier' clothes and stick with inexpensive basics, but focus more on nice accessories. I find that the perfect bag can do wonders

 

[meowmix]

Originally posted by purplelucrezia@Apr 15th, 2004 - 11:43 pm
I say to heck with sexy!

ditto B)

 

[Glamourina]

@ you two. I would say to heck with it, but my best friend is tall and Latina with flawless skin and a perfect body, and when we go places together (which always happens since we're attached at the hip) she always looks so womanly and at least a year or two than she really is, whereas I look like her kid sister! She can do sexy, but I'm more in the "cute" vein I guess. I don't wanna be cute! Puppies are cute! I'm not a puppy! Le sigh.

 

[purplelucrezia]

Cute can be good too! At least that's what I tell myself...

 

[softgrey]

there are all different kinds of sexy...

i suggest exploring some other options that you feel more comfortable with...a woman is most attractive when she is at ease with herself...find a look that you're comfortable with...everything else will come with that...


have fun exploring...