The Art of Seduction - what is seductive/sexy to all of you?

[purplelucrezia]

As for the age thing, believe me, it could be much worse...
My younger sister, who is sixteen, also happens to be much taller, more impressive looking and perhaps even a bit more mature (shocking, I know!) than me. People tend to either assume that she is the elder or that we are twins. A little sad, and very embarassing... Still, I guess I'll appreciate it when we're old ladies and I look younger than her!

 

[As You Like It]

I can't do any sort of "sexy" looks myself. I am too goofy and ornery. I just don't have the langorous sex-kitten thing going, and I don't do flirtatious well, and y'all know I'm not captivatingly beautiful. *snerk* Nonetheless, I get a fair amount of male attention (frankly unwanted since I'm all happily married and suchlike). I think guys like it if you seem pleasant, and have an overall healthful appearance. Hell, a guy was trying to get my number today in line at the grocery, and I was wearing a pair of baggy, beige corduroy shorts, an orange-and-yellow striped tee-shirt with mysterious black stains on it, and a pair of paint-stained old shoes, with my hair bundled up in a ponytail. Definitely not cute and alluring. Goodness only knows what he thought he saw...

I think confidence and carriage has a lot to do with it. Like I said, I'm not at all pretty, but I am a saucy wench. I've got plenty of pep in my step, and when I'm enjoying life, it's pretty obvious to all and sundry. It seems like when I am in my most bouyant moods is when guys talk to me the most. I think many guys like the idea of a high spirited woman.

 

[Spacemiu]

i like pin up style on women

 

[whereisthatsusu]

Sexy is confidence.
Sexy is not worrying about whether or not you look sexy

 

[Fujyn]

I like the look sexy but it's better to be sexy and elegant (as Gucci style)

 

[Spike413]

Yeah, to me, the best kind of sexy (and the kind I'm most attracted to) is when a woman is screaming sex appeal, but there is class involved, very much what Gucci's all about. Maintaining class while being sexy keeps it from going from sexy to skanky..........

 

[i_<3_chanel]

to look sexy . . i think there needs to be a little mystery

 

[Glamourina]

Originally posted by i_<3_chanel@Apr 18th, 2004 - 11:07 am
to look sexy . . i think there needs to be a little mystery

Exactly.

Thanks for your responses you guys!

 

[Nixon058]

A good example of style to look at is brittany murphy she is absolutely tiny and can look elagently sexy too!

 

[FashionVixen]

I know this is no consolation but if she looks older now, she is going to look 10 years older in her middle ages..

 

[Glamourina]

Originally posted by FashionVixen@Apr 18th, 2004 - 11:37 pm
I know this is no consolation but if she looks older now, she is going to look 10 years older in her middle ages..

Yeah I tell myself that. I have a very youthful looking face, I was actually mistaken for being 13 a few weeks ago and I'm 20. I have a womanly body, though, my friends say I look like a Playboy model without anything plastic but still, since my face looks so young it's hard to do sexy. Or at least in my head it is, anyway.

 

[Erin]

Originally posted by Glamourina+Apr 18th, 2004 - 10:48 pm--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Glamourina @ Apr 18th, 2004 - 10:48 pm)</div><div class='quotemain'> <!--QuoteBegin-FashionVixen@Apr 18th, 2004 - 11:37 pm
I know this is no consolation but if she looks older now, she is going to look 10 years older in her middle ages..

Yeah I tell myself that. I have a very youthful looking face, I was actually mistaken for being 13 a few weeks ago and I'm 20. I have a womanly body, though, my friends say I look like a Playboy model without anything plastic but still, since my face looks so young it's hard to do sexy. Or at least in my head it is, anyway. [/b][/quote]
join the club I have the youngest looking of all young-looking faces!

 

[PinUpGirl]

Originally posted by Spacemiu@Apr 18th, 2004 - 5:01 am
i like pin up style on women

Me too!

 

[purechris]

Originally posted by whereisthatsusu@Apr 18th, 2004 - 2:57 am
Sexy is confidence.
Sexy is not worrying about whether or not you look sexy

I was going to say the exact thing.
Sexy is knowing who you are and being so comfortable with it that you can just be yourself. Having an air of mystery doesn't hurt either.

 

[duckboy]

protip: being sophisticated can be sexy

 

[purplelucrezia]

I like to believe this...
"Sex-appeal is something that you feel deep down inside. It's suggested, not shown.... I'm not as well-stacked as Sophia Loren or Gina Lollobrigida, but there is more to sex appeal than just measurements. I don't need a bedroom to prove my womanliness. I can convey just as much appeal fully clothed, picking apples off a tree or standing in the rain."
- Audrey Hepburn

 

[sweetjane]

what a nice quote, purple!!

 

[softgrey]

Originally posted by purplelucrezia@Jun 4th, 2004 - 8:10 am
I like to believe this...
"Sex-appeal is something that you feel deep down inside. It's suggested, not shown.... I'm not as well-stacked as Sophia Loren or Gina Lollobrigida, but there is more to sex appeal than just measurements. I don't need a bedroom to prove my womanliness. I can convey just as much appeal fully clothed, picking apples off a tree or standing in the rain."
- Audrey Hepburn

are you sure about that quote purple...?...

hard for me to imagine audrey using the term "stacked"...endowed, maybe...

 

[purplelucrezia]

Originally posted by softgrey+Jun 4th, 2004 - 4:06 pm--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (softgrey @ Jun 4th, 2004 - 4:06 pm)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-purplelucrezia@Jun 4th, 2004 - 8:10 am
I like to believe this...
"Sex-appeal is something that you feel deep down inside. It's suggested, not shown.... I'm not as well-stacked as Sophia Loren or Gina Lollobrigida, but there is more to sex appeal than just measurements. I don't need a bedroom to prove my womanliness. I can convey just as much appeal fully clothed, picking apples off a tree or standing in the rain."
- Audrey Hepburn

are you sure about that quote purple...?...

hard for me to imagine audrey using the term "stacked"...endowed, maybe... [/b][/quote]
I got it off a Livejournal, so there's no means of verification. It's still a nice thought though.

 

[purplelucrezia]

I actually asked about it, and apparently that's a direct quote from the Barry Paris biography.