princesita
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Yesterday we were talking ith some friends (thirty-somethings like me) about what looks stylish and what doesn´t when you cross the 30 barrier.
I don´t mean there´s something like "rules" but I think there are things that -even if you have a nice body to pull them off- begin to look kinda weird when you grow up.
For me it´s too low cut jeans, kiddish tops, grungey casual style. Some of my friends said long hair looks bad over 30 but I really don´t think so...
It is weird how perception changes. When you´re 20 you are sure what a 30 something shouldn´t wear, but when you ´re there you begin to wonder, as you don´t see yourself really different, but everybody´s perception about you really does, and somethimes you feel the clash.
I sometimes wanna scream to some of my friends...Please grow up! Dress like a woman and stop trying to kid yourself! But then I meet other friends who begin to look too "safe" and you can see how they kinda begin to look dated and stuck in 1995....
I usually know what to wear but l confess that I sometimes wonder...Is this appropiate for me? Am I kidding myself? Do I have the right perception about my own image?
Does somebody around here have those thoughts too?
I don´t mean there´s something like "rules" but I think there are things that -even if you have a nice body to pull them off- begin to look kinda weird when you grow up.
For me it´s too low cut jeans, kiddish tops, grungey casual style. Some of my friends said long hair looks bad over 30 but I really don´t think so...
It is weird how perception changes. When you´re 20 you are sure what a 30 something shouldn´t wear, but when you ´re there you begin to wonder, as you don´t see yourself really different, but everybody´s perception about you really does, and somethimes you feel the clash.
I sometimes wanna scream to some of my friends...Please grow up! Dress like a woman and stop trying to kid yourself! But then I meet other friends who begin to look too "safe" and you can see how they kinda begin to look dated and stuck in 1995....
I usually know what to wear but l confess that I sometimes wonder...Is this appropiate for me? Am I kidding myself? Do I have the right perception about my own image?
Does somebody around here have those thoughts too?