Flash that flesh .

[style_savy]

I know you tried to apologize, but that's seriously arrogant and ignorant. r*pists care about demeaning and overpowering their victims, not whether their in minis or baggy pants.

I never tried to apologize I explained my point. Wearing revealing clothing can come along with a risk of receiving unwanted attention by people who may pursue in those kinda of actions. I could go on into details of r*pe and the mentality of r*pists forever since I've done research on the topic as a law student but I simply do not even care enough to. This is a fashion forum not a b*tch at strangers forum odelay.

 

[Missoni~Heiress]

i dont like it when people compare how a women dresses in a way that may attract r*pist. This is a really scary thought for me as i did file a r*pe threat to the police and we dont know who the guy is...

I think fashion should be like a free spirit... if a girl is happy with what she is wearing and she looks good... a little extra flesh wont hurt as long as she doesnt look trashy because trashy men may be more attracted to that way of dressing... but in the same hand a girl can look just as amazing in a cute top and jeans... i also think that you have to dress for the occassion...

 

[cosmocat]

It is totally relevant to talk about r*pe on this forum if you want to bring up the clothes a victim is wearing. Considering the majority of cases aren't the stranger on the street, I'm not sure why it matters how sexy your clothes are but I do not believe/think that a r*pist would choose the victim depending on their clothes, its not about sex but violence. What you are likely to attract on the street, whatever you wear and wherever you go, is harrassment whether it be looks, comments or even action. Some men view women (or girls) merely as sexual objects and they will treat you that way whether you are wearing a prarie or mini skirt. I realise that in the courts, a woman's attire can be brought up and discussed but that does not mean it is justified. It means reforms need to take place.

There is the question-why do some girls/women want to show off their bodies? There are many possibliities but I think that in the right circumstances, as in out of school/work, it is absolutely fine to wear a short skirt etc. I may not like what they are wearing but I try to give everyone respect and not judge them on what they are wearing. This doesn't always work...

 

[travolta]

But also at the heart of everything we do is the drive for reproduction

i disagree, and this is more offensive than bulging breasts and butt cheeks.

 

[travolta]

There is the question-why do some girls/women want to show off their bodies?

why do men bulk up their bodies and put gel in their hair? both men and women care about their looks. men just don't have to buy makeup

 

[pucci_mama]

Here in the U.K i see a LOT of girls dressing down, that shoulden't do so at all!!

i mean the U.K are the fattest nation next to America, can some-one please, get the hint???!

 

[BohoChic]

Here in the U.K i see a LOT of girls dressing down, that shoulden't do so at all!!

i mean the U.K are the fattest nation next to America, can some-one please, get the hint???!

Oh goodness, I disagree.

Whenever I go to work especially in central london when the weather has been really hot lately I see women dressing very provacatively especially while going clubbing. Its definitley increasing over here, and it has not been played down at all.

I mean grant it some carry it off while others just look plain ridiculous especially dressing the boho look which is simply irritating me to no end now.

That article has a bit of truth in it but somehow I don't know how they anaylse the female population without knowning the reasons why women dress the way they do. Just cause we buy the magazines does not necessarily mean that we want to look like those females.

 

[cosmocat]

why do men bulk up their bodies and put gel in their hair? both men and women care about their looks. men just don't have to buy makeup

Neither do women have to! I was just thinking about why some women prefer to dress skimpily where as others don't. A lot of it must be confidence in their bodies, I can't even wear a bikini and I'm not overweight.

 

[travolta]

Neither do women have to!

you just answered your own question

 

[Missoni~Heiress]

i think if you look hot... then flashing flesh is fine...