Why do people insist that the existence of exceptions disproves general trends? Nobody would proclaim that jumping off of bridges is safe merely because many people do indeed survive the experience; some even survive losing games of Russian Roulette. But let there be one exception to a behavioural rule, and suddenly people want to claim that the rule is "disproven".
As long as there are wider differences within each group of "men" and "women" (as a matter of fact there is no distinct line between the sexes) you can't make sweeping generalizations about the differences between them.