fashionista-ta
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^That's part of the problem though. I like the look of the era too but I worry that if for some reason I were to wear a retro type outfit if people would treat me differently. Would they think differently about who I am? They might think I'm sweet and can be taken advantage of. They might think I want to be like an Avon lady or whatnot. You know? What we wear is part of who we are. And every item of clothing, whether or not we like it has meaning.
The way I see it, I'm not responsible for how people judge me. I have definitely had people 'misunderestimate' me based on what I was wearing. Wasn't that too bad for them

You've almost got a poem going here 


I hope you mean only with regards to clothing choice.
After all, women are still second class citizens the world over. They still make less at the same jobs as men. They are objectified more often and repeatedly. Some foolishly think "flesh is power"
. Actresses disprove that since they can't get good roles after a "certain age." As tigerrouge points out, plastic surgery is almost normal, etc.
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I really loved the last sentence too. Because maybe when it all comes down to it nostalgia/memory is what makes people react the way they do towards a designer collection or even to other events in history. It's all a matter of perspective. And the way one person remembers something may be vastly different then how others see it. Which is why I love threads like this- while we might not all agree we are all able to state our opinion. And to me the 50's was a bit oppressive whereas to other people they don't see it that way. It's quite interesting really. 