well, i think he is gay..still, i wonder whether his wife knew he was gay before marrying him and thus the marriage was a cover up or whehter she had no idea....isn t it mean how many hollywood actors pretend not to be gay in order to get more parts?? i am sure that if they did come out, they would not get parts in romantic commedies involving ladies nor get parts in actions films...remember what happened to that anne leche (spl?) when she did that film with harrison ford/ everyone said it was not realistic as she was a lesbian..well, turns out she is now married with kids ;-)