who here has an sa? i don't mean a stylist, i mean a personal shopping assistant; i feel like there's a big difference between someone trying to help me define my style and someone who would take my style out into the stores and find me things i'm looking for as well as things i might like. i live a fair drive away from any really formitable city, but we do have a saks nearby: should i just go there and see if they offer sa services, or should i call say, barney's in atlanta or boston and ask there? and then, what do i even say? any tips would be so appreciated.