blueorchid
you soft and only
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No offense, but... this is such a patronizing attitude. The hardships are mostly because of the patriarchy/men (sorry) and aren't going to be fixed by cool clothes (sorry). When men in fashion go on about how "strong" women are and how much they "love" women (especially their mothers, groan... "my mother was so stylish and strong... 🥱") it's almost like the gendered equivalent of the "noble savage."From my male perspective, being a woman must be a very difficult task all around the world. Women go through a lot of hardships .
Not sure about what's empowering about wearing dusty 80s clothes in 2025, but ok. Any item of clothing can be empowering, depending on how a woman wants to wear it. Maybe I feel empowered when I wear my parka in -30C weather because it empowers me to not get frost bite. What stands out to me is that "power" is something male fashion designers (typically) want to "GIVE" (certain) women. Not something women already have, it's presented as something we're lacking. As if we need your approval/help to be empowered. God the word empowered needs to die.
Not to bring up Yves, but... he had a point and it's more relevant in 2025 than ever: "It pains me physically to see a woman victimized, rendered pathetic, by fashion."
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