Should I take a Year/Time Off ... Between High School and College???

I don't recommend this at all. When taking a year off, you lose that mindset of school, just like how returning to school after summer vacation is so difficult. You can't expect to take an entire year off and then go to college. You've forgotten valuable knowledge about study skills, managing time, and other school-related topics.

Not to mention, it looks bad on college applications to say you've taken a year off for no reason in particular. They'll think you're not committed, which you aren't really for taking a year off in the first place, and probably turn you away. That's if you apply in the first place, however: I know many people who take a year off and say they'll go to college the next year, but they don't.

The only reason I'd justify taking a year off was if you're doing some sort of church or humanitarian work, where you're not just focusing on yourself. I don't mean community service every couple of weeks, but all the time. That's the only way most colleges would give you a chance, after taking a year off.

So, in the end it's up to you. But remember, you may not be so lucky with colleges afterwards.
 
I'm taking a year off and despite the crazy looks I get from everyone I tell, I'm really looking forward to it. I have -no- idea what I want to major in college and I don't want to bum around for four years hoping I'll stumble across my calling.

You do know that the majority of first and second students at college don't have a clue what they'll major in, right? That's what college is about. You take classes to discover what you want to do. It's an experience you can't match elsewhere.
 
How about community college? You can still take classes and discover what you might want to do while saving A LOT of money.
 
I did not take time off initially but through my first three years of school I had a few semester-long leave of absences (due to personal health, psychological problems that couldn't be dealt with while in school).

About taking time off, I would say don't worry a lick about what your friends are doing. Not to be pessimistic, but you probably won't really be friends with 95% of them after high school anyway. You must do what is best for you and your life (with consideration to finances, family needs, etc) but don't worry about your friends. You will keep in touch with and stay friends with the real ones and just don't worry about the rest of them.

As far as age and getting a later start, don't worry about that either. When I started college at 18 I was shocked that there were 25, 30 and 50 year olds in some of my classes. Now I am 23 and am just finishing my second "freshman year" (completely switched programs of study and schools so I had to start from the beginning, went from biology to art school). I won't grad now until I'm 26 which is a little depressing to me, but the truth is, after you are out in the work force for a few years, the playing field is sort of even and no one will know or care when you graduated.

I would say bottom line is do what is best for you.

And also to plan the time off if you plan to take it. If you can't afford a Europe back-packing style thing, maybe do peace corps stint or work part time and take a few classes part-time at a CC (like has been suggested). If it isn't planned or all you are doing is working some part-time retail or restaurant job you will end up feeling bored and useless. Unless it bringing in lots of money and that's your goal for the time off.

Is there a counselor you could discuss it with at length? Like an advisor or counselor at your school or if you have a therapist?

good luck in deciding and whatever you do.:flower:
 
I don't recommend this at all. When taking a year off, you lose that mindset of school, just like how returning to school after summer vacation is so difficult. You can't expect to take an entire year off and then go to college. You've forgotten valuable knowledge about study skills, managing time, and other school-related topics.

I second this - you've got the rest of your life after college to live in a self-directed fashion, so stay in the achievement mindset and proceed straight on.

Unless you're one of those absurdly motivated people, you will not do what you had happily envisaged during your year out, therefore what you will gain is a feeling of doubt about your ability to achieve things under your own steam.
 
I always set on the notion of going to college right after high school, but recently I've been questioning whether or not I'm ready to go.

This questioning is there because you are not sure if it's the right time. I too had been questioning whether to go to college right away while I was still in high school. Then I went to college/university straight after high school, got a BA degree and discovered during an internship in my last semester it was really not what I wanted to do. I took time off, moved to another country for 2 years, realized what I wanted to do and came back and got another degree in a subject I discovered during my time off.

Another thing I discovered while living in that other country and others since then, is that if your educational system allows you to go to college/university at any age, then take advantage of it. There are many places around the world where if you miss the opportunity at the start, meaning right when you graduate from HS or pass the exams, then you can never go to university.:( I have met many people who only dream about going to university, but who will never be able to do so.

All the best to you!:flower:
 
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I took a year off and it was the best thing i could have done. I applied to schools that I had fully researched this year and got into all of them. I did some travelling but i mostly worked, it was great to get real experience for my CV.
 
I don't recommend this at all. When taking a year off, you lose that mindset of school, just like how returning to school after summer vacation is so difficult. You can't expect to take an entire year off and then go to college. You've forgotten valuable knowledge about study skills, managing time, and other school-related topics.
well this obviously isn't true because many people have done it...
and managing time is something you can learn whether or not you are in school...
it's all about how motivated and mature you are...

Not to mention, it looks bad on college applications to say you've taken a year off for no reason in particular. They'll think you're not committed, which you aren't really for taking a year off in the first place, and probably turn you away. That's if you apply in the first place, however: I know many people who take a year off and say they'll go to college the next year, but they don't.

The only reason I'd justify taking a year off was if you're doing some sort of church or humanitarian work, where you're not just focusing on yourself. I don't mean community service every couple of weeks, but all the time. That's the only way most colleges would give you a chance, after taking a year off.

So, in the end it's up to you. But remember, you may not be so lucky with colleges afterwards.
we've already heard some great examples from people who have taken a year off and done very well in school...
some schools will even give you the option of deferring admission, if you want to travel, etc. after high school...
in the end, most colleges want a diverse class who aren't all about academics...
i know alot of people who didn't go to college right from high school...
my boyfriend enrolled in NOLS (national outdoor leadership school) and got to go to washington and utah before enrolling at vermont...
and one of my best friends from high school went to paris and germany and lived abroad for a year, working as an assistant for a photographer...she later went to columbia and is now starting grad school...

the bottom line is, it can be done, but you do have to have a plan and be dedicated to it...
it doesn't have to be something humanitarian related, i think the most important thing is to do something where you better yourself...
then when you do apply to school, you can speak about that experience and how coming to college after that will make you a better student...
 
I honestly agree with kimair. Though it's not the best thing for everybody, it can be done if you've got the motivation. I don't think colleges would look down upon it, instead they'd be thrilled to have a student that used this time to gain insight about themselves. Which can be done through traveling and work - they love seeing students who are focused on bettering themselves and if they need time to do that before school, it shows they want to start school the best way possible. And that would not only consist of knowing their math and geography, but things that can't be learned in school such as living abroad or gaining work experience. Both things are essential for college and after graduation. Any and every school loves determination.

Some people might view taking a year off as a bad thing cos you're deferring school and the college would think you're not motivated. But really, it could go both ways. It can also show that the student does not want to do anything else and wants to get school over as soon as possible. If you do one, it doesn't mean the other is silly. Going to school right away doesn't mean you are better, it's just a safer choice. Deferring school does not mean you don't want to go college at all - but instead, want to explore your options before making a final choice. Both are fine.
 
Seriously, colleges typically don't like it when a student takes a year off. Unless you're spending that year doing massive amounts of community service, they're going to turn you down because you don't seem motivated. I'm not saying everyone who takes a year off isn't motivated, but that's probably what it'd seem like to a college.

And what about getting a job? When you're finally done with college, you'd be a year behind your peers. Many people would rather hire the younger person if given the choice between, say, a 22 or 23 year old.

Also, I have to ask: What job do you plan on getting during this year? It'd have to be one you wouldn't mind leaving come August or whenever you leave for college. I'd be worried over finding a great job and having to leave it for college.
 
seanut, your response seems like a generalization...
i mean, how do you know colleges typically don't like it? :unsure:
others in this thread have given personal examples of what has happened to them when they took a year off...
there's a difference between stating your personal preference and speaking for college admissions directors...

here is an interesting article i found on this from the princeton review:

Taking Time Off, A Good Idea?

Before you begin your career in the real world, chances are you will have spent over 16 years in school. Sure, you may not like it, but deep down you know going to school is the right thing to do. As you near the end of this period, or pass the halfway point if you're thinking about grad school, you may lose a bit of that school tunnel vision. For one of many reasons, you may be thinking about taking time off from the academic fast track. This could entail deferring your entrance to college, taking a break in the middle, or even taking some time off before you find a job or start grad school. You probably don't want to leave school forever, but being at school just isn't working out right now. Why might you feel this way? What can you do if you leave school? What are some good reasons to stay? We've talked to students, college counselors, admissions reps, headhunters, and human resources reps in NYC to answer these questions and shed some light onto why putting off plans to continue schooling is becoming more and more popular with students today.

Why take time off
There are many reasons for taking time off from school. You may want to take some time to find yourself outside. Likes and dislikes, plans for the future, and even the reason why you want to be in school can come into sharper focus with a simple change of environment. Time off can give students added focus and enthusiasm when they return to school. If a student isn't ready for college, time off can cultivate maturity and self-discipline. Special programs can prepare students so they don't waste time and money by doing poorly in school. Time off can also allow students to work and save money so they don't have to work as many hours when they return to school. At the opposite end of the spectrum, the time between high school and college, or directly after college, is a time to pursue experiences that might be impractical once you are firmly settled in the real world. Your time off can make you a unique person and show that you're not afraid to break away from the herd.

Misconceptions
Taking time off from school is fairly uncommon in the U.S. and therefore there are several misconceptions. The biggest one being that if you stray from the straight and narrow academic path you won't get into grad school or get a job. Admissions counselors at professional schools tell us that taking time off for school is rarely a disadvantage for an applicant. In fact, they often choose the student who took a year off and is ready to become fully engaged in school over the one who has been on autopilot and will burn out in a few months. Grad schools love it if applicants are able to articulate why they are pursuing their chosen course of study; time off often gives you the perspective to do just that. In the job market, activities that display commitment and learning are seen in a positive light but backpacking around Europe for a year might be a little harder to pass off.

There are also misconceptions about the ways taking time off from school will affect your resume and applications. An interesting experience won't necessarily help you get a job. The same generally holds true for college admissions. Many students who are rejected from their first choice have opted to take time rather than attending a safety school. Students reason that the activity they pursue during their time off looks better on a resume than attending a mediocre school. This is probably one of the worst reasons to take time off since the student is focused on activities that may help get them into school but are not things they actually have an interest in pursuing. These students often hope that they can reapply to a selective school and gain admission based on their new experiences.

While taking time off to try to get into a school later can help in certain situations, your academic record is always most heavily weighed. If you're dead set on a particular school, your best bet is to work hard and get good grades at your second choice school and try to transfer later. Who knows, you may decide you love your new school and won't want to transfer. If you think that the experiences you have while taking time off may help increase your chances of getting into a certain school, contact the admissions office and inquire about the most important factors in their selection process. Usually schools looking for the proverbial "well-rounded" student will put more weight on your activity. Engineering and tech schools may be less likely to care about charity work. That said, make an appointment with an admissions officer at the school you want to attend. Discussing your plans with someone from admissions will help you gage whether or not taking time off will be beneficial to your application if you decide to reapply.
 
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What to do
The first thing you need to do when taking time off is to see a guidance counselor at the school in which you are currently enrolled. If you are thinking of deferring your entrance to a new institution, you'll need to contact the admissions office at your new school. Counselors and admissions officers will usually grant a one or two-semester leave of absence or deferral.

The next step, finding something to fill you newfound free time, is a bit more daunting. When making this decision, the most important thing to remember is that you should always do what will benefit you most personally, not what might look best on school and job applications. You also need to consider its practicality. If your family has money problems, volunteering might not be the best idea. Structured activities such as internships and career-related work experience, though impressive on a resume, don't necessarily help students clarify their goals. Often, the drudgery of a menial job and a little soul searching prove more helpful. Below are some generalized "types" of students who may consider taking time off from school:
  • The lost soul: You don't know why everyone is just following the linear track from high school, to college, grad school, and work. You're unsure of what your purpose in this world is, but deep down you know that you have one.
  • The over-achiever: Talk about burnout! You've been doing all the extra credit assignments since you were four. You've argued with teachers about exam answers to get extra points. Now you're unsure about what it's all been for.
  • The under-achiever: Your grades haven't been the best but you know you're capable of better. You don't want to settle for a mediocre education but you didn't get into you top choice school.
  • The big kid: You + alcohol = a bad idea. You party hard and your grades sometimes suffer because of it. In general, school doesn't really interest you and there are a thousand other things that you would rather be doing.
  • The employee: Besides midterms and papers, you have to worry about holding down your job. You rarely have any time for fun, and are probably suffering from some kind of burnout.
Consider Your Options
There are many things you can do during your time away from school. Here are a few options to help you get started:
  • Volunteer: Volunteering can raise awareness of cultural issues and the benefits of education in general. Students in programs such as Americorps see themselves, sometimes for the first time, as part of a larger society. The hard work involved helps students realize that they want to return to school and increases their confidence and maturity when they do.
  • Live life: Getting away and doing something that you enjoy can be an incredibly rejuvenating experience. If you're looking at a time-consuming career after graduation, you might not get another chance to pursue your interests. This can be a time to take stock of where you are and decide if the path you're on is right for you. One resource is The Center for Interim Programs which works with students to choose options that help them return to school more focused and mature.
  • Build character: Sometimes putting yourself in a tough situation is the only way to bring out your best qualities. Programs like Outward Bound are carefully designed to foster teamwork and leadership skills among individuals placed in challenging situations. Realizing these qualities can produce a noticeable difference in demeanor and confidence for students.
  • Community college: That's right, you probably shouldn't take time off of school at all. If you weren't accepted to the schools you wanted to go to, the best remedy is a year or two of hard work and solid grades at a community, 2-year, or junior college. Then you can try reapplying as a transfer student. Admissions people want to see that you can commit yourself and succeed academically before they admit you.
  • Work it: So you have a job already, one that they're probably sick of. You may want to keep working while not having to worry about school and keeping on top of a stressful schedule. You can work more hours and save some money so when you do go back to school you will be financially prepared.
  • Career experience/internship: This is a great way to make sure your future career is right for you, take a break from school, and still stay on track. Real world experience shows that you're committed to a particular field and will certainly look great on your resume and grad school applications.
  • Poor paying job/drudgery: For the student who may not be mature enough, or are lacking in direction, this is a viable option. Nothing inspires soul searching quite like misery.
Before you go...
Remember, taking time off is not for everyone, and it can have its drawbacks. You should consider them carefully before making any decisions:
  • Though all students mature at their own pace and in their own ways--and a good deal may not be ready for college at 18--college directly after high school is good for most. You're with people your own age who are more likely to share your interests. Are you prepared to be the oldest in your class?
  • Figuring out what direction you want to take is always a valid reason to give yourself some time off. However, if you know where you're going, especially if it's a competitive field or the job market is tight, it usually better to continue with your education. A gap in schooling can raise a red flag with employers.
  • If you aren't admitted to the college of your choice it is far better to attend another college for a year or two and then reapply as a transfer student than take time off in hopes of improving your application. After all, your academic record is the most important factor in getting into a good school; your school of choice is more likely to accept you as a transfer student when you've demonstrated that you can perform academically. Calling the admissions office of the college you want to attend is a good idea; you can find out what unique factors the school considers when admitting new and transfer students.
Thinking ahead
Remember, schools and employers generally prefer students who have engaged in structured activity during their time off. When applying to a professional school after college it is sometimes to your advantage to take some time off. Schools often choose applicants with some real-world work experience and who are not burned out from having just completed their last year of college. Graduate schools prefer students who can articulate why they are choosing to follow a particular career path-taking a year off can help formulate clearer goals and thus make you a better applicant. One the other hand, while taking time off to find direction in your life is always a valid choice, if you are already intent on entering a particular field, especially a competitive one, it is generally better to stay on-track, particularly at the undergraduate level. For all these reasons, it is important to sit down and map out what you will be doing both if you decide to stay in school and if you take time off. It is a tough decision and you must consider the advantages and disadvantages to both options before making any rash decisions.
 
another article from the washington post:

More Are Taking a Rain Check on College

By Ian Shapira
Washington Post Staff Writer
Sunday, August 5, 2007

Billy Neville was flipping through the humongous Fiske Guide to Colleges last fall, yet another senior at a pressure-cooker high school in search of a game plan, when his mother told him something unexpected.

"She said, 'Keep in mind, you don't really have to go to college next year. You can do something fun,' " recalled Neville, 18, who graduated in June from Walt Whitman High School in Bethesda. "I genuinely liked that idea, but I didn't know how serious she was and how well a year off would work. But I started looking at the idea, and it looked better than going to college because I didn't know what I wanted to do at college."

Ultimately, Neville was accepted at Miami University of Ohio. But he deferred enrollment for a year, joining the ranks of maverick students who take a "gap year" -- time off between high school and college. Some do it to find enlightenment and introspection, others to learn something new or pursue a passion.

There are no hard counts of gap-year students, but the National Association for College Admission Counseling in Alexandria reports anecdotal evidence from counselors that more high school graduates these days are seeking a year off. Gap-year consultants who charge $1,000 or more to advise students on how to fill the time have emerged.

Some students say they take a gap year to escape stress accumulated from Advanced Placement courses and competition over grades and class rank.

"I grew really tired of everything in school. I just didn't like the atmosphere, especially at Whitman, where if you're not an overachiever, then you're just . . . I don't know," Neville said. "So, I was hoping, in my year off, I'll find out what really interests me."

Neville asked for his deferral in a letter to the admissions office. "And they came right back, saying, 'Sure,' " said his mother, Clare Neville.

Ann Larson, a senior associate director of admissions at Miami of Ohio, said the university grants deferrals for medical issues, military service, study abroad and other reasons on a case-by-case basis.

"We really have no problem with students taking gap years," Larson said. "It's very positive what they bring back to the university. It's a maturing experience."

College admissions officers said they want gap-year students to improve upon an area of expertise or perform some kind of public service. John Blackburn, dean of admissions at University of Virginia, said students often seek deferrals for missionary work or public service jobs through such nonprofit organizations as Operation Smile, which performs free reconstructive surgery on children born with facial deformities in developing countries. Admissions officials at Georgetown University estimated that 25 to 30 students admitted each year in a class of almost 1,600 ask for a deferral, requesting trips abroad to learn a foreign language, intern at a foreign embassy, or even work at a foreign or domestic magazine.

Charles Deacon, Georgetown's admissions director, said: "Students have to have a plan that we approve of. Mostly it's for some type of cultural enhancement."

Some outsiders might consider a gap year an exercise in slacking off. But many students plan their time intensively. Some turn to consultants, such as the Center for Interim Programs in Princeton, N.J., or Taking Off in Boston.

Consultants typically charge nothing for the first conversation. But students who want to meet for a lengthy period and discuss options tailored to their interests might pay $1,000 for short-term help or $2,000 for longer-term guidance.

Consultants say they keep up with dozens of programs, so they know which ones are safe and reliable. They also say they know how to draw out students who might be unsure of their goals.

"I ask them, 'How do you want to live? Do you want to live on your own or with other kids? Do you want to learn another language? What's your budget?" said Gail Reardon, founder of Taking Off. "I have over 3,000 opportunities available."

Neville, planning his gap year on his own, checked out http://www.studyabroad.com and considered some volunteer opportunities. He had a yen to travel with a friend in Europe and possibly find work. He thought about a job in Austria as an English-speaking sports commentator, but he passed. Recently, he returned from a week of building homes in Chiapas, Mexico. He hopes to teach skiing or find other work in the mountains of Colorado. He also aims to volunteer with Habitat for Humanity to help rebuild New Orleans.

"I want to find out what I can accomplish without my parents or my school telling me what I can do," Neville said.

Zach Duffy, 17, who just graduated from the Ethical Culture Fieldston School in New York City, will spend part of his gap year traveling in India in the fall with Global Learning Across Borders, based in New York, to cultivate interests in Buddhism, Hinduism and the environment. He deferred enrollment at Whitman College in Washington state.

"The only trip I've taken abroad is to Italy, and I stayed at a nice hotel in Rome and Florence," Duffy said. "I have a desire to learn more about the world because I think I'll be able to conduct myself better in all aspects of my life. If I see poverty in India, then I'll be more humble. I'll just be a more interesting person."

But choosing to take a gap year and forming a plan was not easy. It also was tricky to determine whether the plan would be financially feasible. The Duffys wanted to know whether Brown University in Rhode Island -- where Zach's older brother is a rising junior-- would give the family more financial aid even if Zach were not attending college. (Universities often give extra help if families have two or more children in college.)

Why are the Duffys so concerned about aid from Brown in the next school year? Zach's gap year will cost more than $10,000, including fees, immunizations and equipment.

"We're hoping that they will treat Zach's gap year as if it were a college experience, but we don't have a commitment from Brown yet," said Mark Duffy, Zach's father. Even if Brown turns down their request, Mark Duffy said the gap year will go forward. Zach has a plane ticket for India on Sept. 16, and he's set up a "gap year blog" at http://www.itsthenighttime.blogspot.com.
 
How about community college? You can still take classes and discover what you might want to do while saving A LOT of money.

I was going to recommend the same thing as well. When going to a community college you can always just take your basic liberal arts classes. Your not in a very big competitive school where you have to take a million credits but at the same time you take a couple classes a week that can allow you to also work and do acting or whatever you wanted to do in the meantime. That way you can always transfer to the college you want to go to and not have to take the classes you already took and you have room for more classes. It also saves a lot of money so instead of starting at square one you can move up with your peers.
 
I do agree that taking 'time out' can be great for personal development - I have taken time off during during my education/career, but I've done it after I've achieved the things I set out to, so that the 'missing months' on my CV make sense, as a time where I regathered myself for the next challenge.

After graduating from university with my degree, I took six months out, before going on a more vocational post-uni course. And after working my way up to being a newspaper editor and nine years at the same workplace, I'm taking six months out again to pursue my own projects, writing freelance with no pressure (and without 12 hour days) before I find my next full-time position, in a different field where I'll learn fresh things.

To have taken that time out during my education or career development, it would have been a distraction from achieving my aims. To take it now, feels like a breathing space where I look back on what I've done. I don't feel bad that I'm not super-productive at the moment, I can happily spend the time painting, writing, doing whatever I like.

But when there's a goal to be achieved, I don't let anything get in the way, there's no time to be wasted - and God knows, life is full of distractions.
 
seanut, your response seems like a generalization...
i mean, how do you know colleges typically don't like it? :unsure:
others in this thread have given personal examples of what has happened to them when they took a year off...
there's a difference between stating your personal preference and speaking for college admissions directors...

I only say that because I've known many people who have tried out this "gap year" unsuccessfully. One in particular graduated in 2007, said he'd take a year off and go to college next year, but now has decided not to. He planned all these things to do during his year off, but instead became lazy.

Like I said earlier, this isn't the case for everyone. Sure, some people have success stories, but the bottom line is that it's a risky move. Colleges get thousands of applicants each year, and it's already difficult to be accepted. Why take an even bigger chance by taking a year off? I just don't think it's worth it.
 
When you go to college
you will find people are of ALL ages...

It's up to the person to show they will benefit from going to college, and in some cases their marks, and that's what will lead to an acceptance letter from the school
 
But if you attend community college in the meantime, and then finish, isn't there only a certain amount of schools that will accept you? I feel like out of state schools would be a lot harder to get into and the ones that will accept transfers are probably the ones in your city. Just wondering!
 
hmm not sure how strict it is in the U.S. ...
i'm speaking for Canada :blush:
 

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