Julian was said to be dating and it was rumoured.. although not true (from what i hear) to have married Juliet.
With the looks thing... i think Julian was very good looking in the early days, a sparkle in his eye

and an attitude but also a bit of insecurity - although lately he has put on some weight and masacred his hair. Ive also read that Albert is incredibly charistmatic, the friendliest (or maybe more confident because they seems quite insecure sometimes which could come across as being rude) and from people who have met him he is very good looking and makes a huge impact.. which i think is a combination of all this qualities.
I think with ROF theres heaps of reasons why the album wasn't as appealing (i think its great)
1) certain people who loved Is This it couldnt take the change.. although sounds similar, if your know what i mean?
2) the hype around Is This it caused a bit of a stir.. they were in NME before they had even released a single. Certain "people" weren't happy about it all and i think a lot of people wanted ROF to be a let down so that it could be proved that The Strokes were just yet another marketed band. so although it wasnt a let down i think a lot of magazines knew what their review of ROF might be like before it was released. Ok so i know i might be crazy and maybe ive watched a few to many conspiracy movies.. but i just have a feeling from talking to people.
3) a lot of people just cant appreciate their music fullstop... because they dont know how hard they've worked (not like i literally do but from what ive read) and how much it means to them and how you can hear that in their music..in the passion in the guitar and in Julians voice.. theres always a kind of yearning which is passed on . They just listen to it from the outside.. and i think to appreciate strokes music you have to know a bit about them as people
despite all that its f*cking good music, and im just glad i get it