Eh, I think she and her boyfriend look weird together, but it's her life, and no one really knows about her unless they know her personally. Maybe she fell in love and he happens to be rich and older. She's not the first person to date rich men. A lot of actresses date financially well-off men. I don't get why she gets all the hate. Did she sleep her way to the top? Maybe she did, maybe not. Unless there's video or something, we'll never really know. If she did, she certainly wouldn't be the first in the business to do so (not that I condone it). There are lots of Asian men in the business who are with lots of women, yet I don't really hear the public calling them sluts. A bit misogynistic, IMO. I just don't understand why all the hatred is pointed at her when there are equally "offensive" actresses. The whole "every Chinese knows she's a sl*t" comment smacks of immaturity and high school jealousy. I was aghast when I read about some paper criticising how she squatted like a poor person (when she was reaching for a book or something). Ridiculous. Being poor is akin to being a bad person? And don't get me started on people in China making fun of her English and ridiculing her on not being as fluent after taking lessons.
In any case, I think she looks lovely in recent pics. Her day-to-day candid style's a bit off, but she looks great at events.