I'm not specialist in the hair care area, but I am AA and I have worn my hair in it's natural state (verrry curly) for almost 2 years now. I've found that you must condition more than you normally would if you were wearing it straightened. Our hair is prone to get dried out way faster than the hair of others. I'm not a perm wearer, haven't been for years upon years because it's only damaged my hair (breakage, split ends, thinning on the sides). I still straightened it over the years but it looked limp to me..always bland.
It's thicker and fuller now that I've stopped applying heat. No heat for 2 years has an amazing effect on your hair! I agree that
ABBA'S hair products are reallllly nice, they're pretty much all I use. But I'll probably be trying Ojon, Pureology, and Purehair in the future. I only use all natural haircare products too..I don't like harsh chemicals. Lots of shea butter and olive oil are good additions as well.
Also, I know alotta AA women feel like it's alot prettier to have long straight locks of hair, but I know so many women that feel sexier when wearing their hair au natural, you have to own it and love it for anyone else to. It took me a little while to learn what works and what doesnt as well as what I do and don't like. It's VERY overwhelming to just hack off 3 years of permed hair and focus on a texture you never took the time to style, study, and enjoy. But your hair will definitely be healthier. When I want straight hair, I'll go out and buy a really nice wig or something, but I love my hair the way it is now, I even have an album for it
Last few tips,
Invest in products that work for your hair, not the hype.
Try something for a month, if it doesn't seem to give you what you want, don't buy it again.
AA women have curly/kinky hair, it's not a secret...if you're trying to make your natural hair have that "good" curl or look texturized, you might come up short and disappointed because those looks are done with texturizers which are weak perms.
Don't obsess over your hair looking like someone's whose isn't as thick or "untamed" as yours. It doesn't do anything for you or your hair.
Play in it! Whenever you have the chance, hang out and just try stuff out.
omg. that was long lol..