ChloeFrancoise
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because magazines and the media and the entire beauty industry make their money largely by capitalizing on any insecurities we may feel about our physical appearances (while also reminding us that it's embarrassing to be insecure and we should love ourselves as we are, or we're not good women) and thus their nature is to assume we are 'insecure' about our 'flaws' and remind us that we 'need' their products.
not that i don't buy magazines or makeup or try to fix my flaws or anything at all, because please, i buy so much makeup it's pathetic, obviously. just always something to keep in mind when someone else, or a beauty tutorial, or a magazine, or anything at all points out and makes you feel badly about a feature that you had never previously thought was a flaw. if you like something about yourself, nobody can ever tell you it's not okay.
i spent the first 12 years of my life not caring about my nose, then the next 6 feeling badly about it and fantasizing about a nose job after (i distinctly remember) reading a beauty tutorial on how to 'make your nose as cute as nicole kidman's' and 'straighten out any unsightly bumps', and feeling badly because the bridge of my nose was very deep and there was a small bump towards the end. then i moved to the czech republic and every other woman on the street had a nose like mine and people thought i was a.) czech or polish and b.) very attractive and i realised i just look eastern european as all hell (uh, becuase i AM) and i'll take my nose bump along with my long legs and cheekbones, thank you very much. i love my nose now, and i love that i 'look polish.' to hell with nicole kidman's nose.
beauty tutorials (and the 'perfection' they teach us to aspire to) aren't the be-all end-all of beauty, and i think everyone should always keep that in mind.
Well said.

