You just contradicted yourself! How do you know pete is a very loving caring person, and yet we can't judge him for ourselfs?
 
I base my opinions of pete on the fact he's a hard drug addict, has a criminal record, assults reporters, has a highly sketchy sexual past, and looks like he is close to dropping dead from heart failure. I sure as hell would never let someone like that even in my house. I just can't see someone who punches anyone in the face as a 'caring' 'loving' person, I can't imagine any of my friends doing that 
 
 
 everyone has a good side, just most people's good side tends to out shine their bad side, so you don't have to 'look for it'.
 
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It is what it is... well said Alexx!