The problem with so many men (and I say this, tragically, as not only a man but also as one who is attracted to other men lol) is that they literally cannot seem to comprehend the idea that people don't always want them, and that just because someone isn't violently fighting back doesn't mean they're a willing participant. I mean, his text exchanges with the second woman who came forward perfectly illustrate this. He has himself convinced the incidents were not only consensual but enjoyable enough for the survivors that they would want to meet up again. Not that I don't typically believe people when they come forward with the accusations, but I most often don't read the details. For whatever reason I did this time, and it's heartbreaking and detailed and relatable. I know "innocent until proven guilty" and all, but I personally don't ever want to see his face again.