Sienna Miller & Balthazar Getty Affair

[ckashie]

If I were the mother, I'd want that man out of my children's lives regardless if he's their father or not.

And no amount of money can make up for a bad influence.

Not defending him, but his behaviour isn't a good reason to keep him away from the children. They're his kids too, and how do we know he isn't a good father? Even if he doesn't seem to be a good husband. It would be wrong to deny the children contact with their father just because the marriage didn't work (unless there is risk to the kids of course). I don't know if Rosetta is doing this or not obviously, but in general, it's always terrible when one parent uses the children against the other parent in separation/divorce cases.

Have Rosetta or Balthazar ever commented on the situation, does anyone know?

 

[ponytrot]

Nice to see where his priorities are; spending the Thanksgiving holiday with her instead of his family.

he's freaking shameless.

it's disgusting really when you consider the kids.

 

[imogen11]

I can't believe he's acting like that with four kids at home! How pathetic. Mid-life crisis anyone? It seems to me me he's trying desperately to stay young and 'hip'

Mid-life crisis?! He's only 33!

 

[Cinthia]

maybe rosetta doesn't want to spend thanksgiving with him if they are separated. when people are separated they don't spend holidays together. sienna seems dumb.

 

[lostinemotion]

the reason why women subject themselves to such torture is because they allow them to.
we teach people how to treat us and slowly, somewhere a long the line, little things happen that make it "ok" and "didn't just happen" or "more to the story", that is how women get tricked every day.
it might be fun for the current moment, but how can one ultimately trust anyone after something like this? I mean, in either rosetta or sienna's case.
The point of marriage is not always happily ever after and it takes work, commitment understanding. I think it's really small and unmanly when a man can't just come clean and get his affairs in order before he moves on to, innocent, free loving, open women and take advantage.
When I was 24 I dated a 33 year old with kids and even learned of some that existed before I was ever told. In hind sight, he just used me for my free loving, open minded ways and took advantage of that.
He eventually moved onto the next young thing and did it her and the one after.

 

[olga.]

Mid-life crisis?! He's only 33!

maybe hormones are buzzing...

besides. 33 yrs and already grey hair?

 

[imogen11]

Some people start going grey in their twenties! He is still only 33, though.

 

[brokenenglish]

I saw a clip of him on E! last night telling a pap that the Sienna quote from a few weeks ago about her being single and lovin' it was BS.
He seemed like a bit of a tool.

 

[deschanel]

I wonder if Sienna is even happy with this guy. She's all smiles as they leave lunch together. I just wonder if she knows how tasteless that mental image really looks -- this guy who publicly humiliated his entire family walking ahead of her out onto the street. Does she not realize that could be her some day? That a man so wrapped up in his own desires and ambitions could just as easily drag her through the mud as he did the mother of his children? I don't think she's a "sl*t" or "promiscuous", I just think she's young and has a lot of unresolved issues that she's burying away from sight. Grow up and take a look at your life with some perspective, that's my two cents.

 

[neverland&stars]

maybe hormones are buzzing...

besides. 33 yrs and already grey hair?

My bf is 24 and he gets greys!

^^ and I completely agree. Sienna is very young and she's making mistakes like most other girls her age do. It's just unfortunate for her that she has to do it all in the public eye.

 

[mamasarollingsto]

I wonder if Sienna is even happy with this guy. She's all smiles as they leave lunch together. I just wonder if she knows how tasteless that mental image really looks -- this guy who publicly humiliated his entire family walking ahead of her out onto the street. Does she not realize that could be her some day? That a man so wrapped up in his own desires and ambitions could just as easily drag her through the mud as he did the mother of his children? I don't think she's a "sl*t" or "promiscuous", I just think she's young and has a lot of unresolved issues that she's burying away from sight. Grow up and take a look at your life with some perspective, that's my two cents.

Well said. I too don't think she's being sl*tty.. we should take a lot of these men that she's "been with" with a grain of salt. She's the woman that women love to hate. I totally agree - she needs to take a step back, do some damage control and work out if she really IS who she wants to be.

 

[frk-frost]

My bf is 24 and he gets greys!

^^ and I completely agree. Sienna is very young and she's making mistakes like most other girls her age do. It's just unfortunate for her that she has to do it all in the public eye.

Very young? Isn't she 27 or something like that?

 

[neverland&stars]

^^ she is as well. I thought she was younger than that. I reckon she's still at the figuring-stuff-out stage though. (Most of my friends are around that age and they're constantly ****ing up, or doing things they shouldn't or things other people think they shouldn't do.)

 

[ckashie]

About the not spending Thanksgiving with kids thing- Reese Witherspoon spent Thanksgiving with Jake in London, while Ryan had the kids in the US. Doesn't seem so wrong, does it?

 

[~Gia~]

I saw a clip of him on E! last night telling a pap that the Sienna quote from a few weeks ago about her being single and lovin' it was BS.
He seemed like a bit of a tool.

Hahaha! Yea I saw the same clip on TMZ, he seems like a major douche.

 

[lunabella]

About the not spending Thanksgiving with kids thing- Reese Witherspoon spent Thanksgiving with Jake in London, while Ryan had the kids in the US. Doesn't seem so wrong, does it?

Plus, if the kids are in Italy at the moment, they wouldn't even be celebrating Thanksgiving since it's not a holiday there. Silly close-minded Americans.

 

[babyjane]

Plus, if the kids are in Italy at the moment, they wouldn't even be celebrating Thanksgiving since it's not a holiday there. Silly close-minded Americans.

Americans can celebrate a holiday anywhere. If Thanksgiving is important to you why can't you celebrate it in Italy with your family if your all going to be there? It's not like it's a public thing. The tradition is usually to stay in the house, cook a big dinner and have everyone celebrate what they are thankful for together. Why can't you do that anywhere in the world if you want to? I remember an interview with Kate Bosworth when she was dating Orlando Bloom. She said her and her family were going to celebrate Thanksgiving in London because they would be there visiting Bloom's family.

I'm not in America therefore I can't celebrate American holidays and you call Americans close-minded.

BTW, the statement you quoted clearly says the kids were in the US.

 

[frk-frost]

About the not spending Thanksgiving with kids thing- Reese Witherspoon spent Thanksgiving with Jake in London, while Ryan had the kids in the US. Doesn't seem so wrong, does it?

There's a difference. Reese and Ryan are divorced and have been apart and with other partners for quite a while. I'm seriously doubting Sienna has even met the children - and you would think Balthazar would try to put his children frist during the forst holiday after the split. Apparently not though..

 

[xing]

^ I agree. Besides that, the difference between the 2 is that Reese has the kids most of the time and thanksgiving is like time off to spend time with their dad alone.

i think sienna just wants getty to get a divorce. whether or not she's with him is not really the point. it's that i-won thing that she's going after. i mean first she splits up from getty and when news of how getty is trying to get rosetta's forgiveness and everything and suddenly she's back in the picture all smiles. what about being alone huh? (such a hypocrite)

getty has his priorities messed up. even if you DO want to be with sienna, you should at least clear things up between rosetta, explain to the kids and make it as painless for them as possible and NOT parade around with your new squeeze at all the paparazzi hotspots.

rosetta is just plain stupid. hello, getty caught having adultery. fight the divorce and get half of his billions if you're really that worried financially, don't allow that a*hole to walk all over you and the kids. he's not worth it.

 

[Working Girl]

The fact that neither Getty or Rosetta have filed for divorced after 6 months speaks volumes. However, I think Sienna is the one that has control in this relationship. He is the one who went to London after she announced her new found "singlehood". ( I have changed my opinion).