The Art of Seduction - what is seductive/sexy to all of you?

[pursenvy]

Sorry, but why on earth would a sixteen year old WANT to look sexy?
Sporty, cute, confident, YES, but not sexy...too many implications.
Any guy worth it should be more interested in your conversation than getting your kit off.
Sexy is for a woman ( read 18-20 years and over ), and the sexiness is in the confidence with which she conducts herself, not the showing of flesh.
Time would be much better spent developing the intellect and than developing a wardrobe !!

 

[banana]

Were you ever 16? A lot of teenagers want to attract older men because they think they might be more mature.

 

[TheSoCalledPrep]

Be confident, as everyone said. Dress to enhance the looks YOU were given... there is almost no way you can be 5'9", 110 and Brazilian (for example). So just make the most of 5'1", 130 and Irish-Caucasion-African (for example).

Try to exercise, eat healthily, wear clothing flattering to you, be friendly and open...

 

[Sephora_Socialite]

Here's a list of sexy I wrote for my xanga long ago.

* Being confident and comfortable in your skin is sexy. People can see through if you're trying to be something you're not. Don't try to catwalk in the grocery if that isn't you, be your normal ,even silly self and people will adore you.

* Sex is not sexy. If you show too much skin you don't give off sexy, you give off a wrong impression. If one thing is showing cover up the other. (IE halter thats low cut and backless, don't pair it with a crotch length mini. If that to you is sexy you better find a brass poll and learn how to work it. At least that way you get something out of your..."costume"). In other words have some class.

* At all ages you can be sexy. There's no rule to tell you when to start and stop. Just because you're young and sexy doesn't mean you have to be inappropriate, neither does a grandmother who still looks fab in her 70's.

* Self esteem is a key to sexiness. No one can see your true beauty if you can't see it and fully show it. Don't be afraid, you might just be shocked to find that you are of the of the sexy kind(that rhymes hahah)...Now that you knoware lovely, don't be shy, conquer the world girlie.

 

[softgrey]

Originally posted by banana@Jun 22nd, 2004 - 11:00 pm
Were you ever 16? A lot of teenagers want to attract older men because they think they might be more mature.

sounds like a good way to get a sexually transmitted disease or an unwanted pregnancy...
decent guys don't go out with very young girls...only one kind of guy does that and it's for a very specific reason...

and of course we were all young once...that is how we know these things...they happened to us first...

developing your intellect is a good idea at any age...

 

[banana]

Well you're pretty much guaranteed a broken heart at that age. Older guys can be dangerous because they can really manipulate a younger girl but the 16 year old boys were just as bad then and even worse these days. I say forget being sexy for now, stay in school then f*ck all the guys you want in university... safely of course.

 

[stilettogirl84]

not looking too perfect or "done"

you have to look like if he kisses you he won't muss your makeup- I like smudged/smoky eyes- and loose hair, and glossy nude lips- a very Tom Ford for Gucci look-

 

[angelfacex]

Clothes . Whats sexy ?

Hello everyone.

Goin to photo shoot and i have to take some clothes,am a jeans and vest top sort a girl,but i want to look sexy,but am not sure what the sexy look is.
What would you wear and class it as sexy?
Any tips will be great, to point me in the right direction.I have about 3 weeks to get something.

 

[J67X4]

It depends on the cut and neckline of any top. If you are casual and uncomfortable in lowcut/v-necks wear a spagetti stap top..no round neck lines if you want sexy. MAybe a plain tank, jeans and heels? Good luck!

 

[HiHeels]

i won't be any help.
sexy is eye contact.
sexy is confidence.
sexy is intelligence.
sexy is humor (intelligent humor).
ps all of this can translate to an outfit, but it varies from person to person, what makes them confident, etc.

 

[HiHeels]

It depends on the cut and neckline of any top. If you are casual and uncomfortable in lowcut/v-necks wear a spagetti stap top..no round neck lines if you want sexy. MAybe a plain tank, jeans and heels? Good luck!

this is all good - but i prefer motorcycle boots. heels are obvious and when done wrong, even cheap.
a lot of neck showing, clear skin...

 

[angelfacex]

Cheers for posting, i think i want to get away from the jeans and top style for the shoot because its something i always wear and i would like to try something new but not sure what,just something very sexy.

 

[HiHeels]

well, it depends on the weather, but a shirt dress is very subtlely sexy. i'm sorry, my brain doesn't work for overtly sexual because i find that unappealing and therefore unsexy.

 

[angelfacex]

Hello,just been out and bought a short checked skirt, not too short tho and with a pretty white shirt and am gonna were my black knee lengh boots(think that will look a little on the sexy side) not sure what acessories yet though,gonna have my hair styled curly too.
Any other nice sexy clothes u can think off will sill be great .
I didnt see any shirt dresses today which was a shame because i would of tryed it to see if it would of looked nice. thanks anyway

 

[Fewormany]

bump

I think scent is very important.
Both for men and women. Smelling good is always a turn on.
And the general attitude, confidence is sexy and will show.

Clothewise I think it all depends.
Some people even manage to scream sex in just jeans and a plain t-shirt . I do think clothing is sexier then being naked,
it's all about showing some but not all...

 

[lollicandy]

Sexy is black lace, or sheer rose lingerie. For me, never thongs.

Curves, full rounded hips.

Serge Lutens Fleurs d'Oranger. I completely agree about scent^. Freshly showered with no scent is always better than cheap cologne/perfume.

A smile.

Confidence.

I like subtle hints, light touches. Hard to say about who fashion wise is sexy. Those Tom Ford girls are sexy, but in a very "hard" vampy way I could never be.

 

[papa_levante]

Good bump. The thread title was quite catchy. B)

Scent is definitely important Fewormany. There is nothing more irresistible than a guy who smells so sexy.

 

[jadedskies]

I love using clothes for seduction. I like it understated, showing off hints of erogenous zones that aren't breasts, butt and..

I love a tank top with a lower back, or a button-up cami or top where I un-button the first few buttons to show my collarbone..I think that's quite sexy and beautiful. I don't wear underwire bras, so there's never cleavage, which I think would make that look a little trashy.
I also like the high-waisted skirt (looser, not a bandage skirt) with a looser pull-over sweater. I think dressing classy but attractively, is about picking one or the other to show off - the upper half, or the lower (via mini skirt or skinny pants).

 

[Ella-Picobella]

yeah, I love using clothes for seduction too...I like light and slightly see through fabrics. Im not very much into very "obvious" sexiness. I can also wear a white, almost see through t-shirt and open hair....I like when you can almost see something but really see nothing. sort of an very unintended, simple sexiness....and scent of course!

 

[snowqueen]

I love all the old school style seduction tecniques, like the old silver screen stars, and like that of dita von tesse etc. a little goes a long way .. i think to much flesh etc. is soo trashy. But most of all confidence is a must, be happy with our self and who you are and this will shine through. I also think hair is a big must. Nice hair is very sexy