several things
A) about the quimmy:
1) wish i could wax, but i get ingrown hairs (painful hello!)
2) tried shaving a couple of times, but the second day is so uncomfortable and painful!!! has anyone else ever felt that weird painful sensation the 2nd/3rd day?
also about shaving.. how do you get a perfectly perfectly clean shave in all the nooks and crannies, front and back, without slicing and dicing? yowza!!
3) depilatories - too sensitive for that
4) trimming way way low is my only option now, but i'm searching for something better.
B) about men:
1) yup.. don't like hairy backs and shoulders... this is where waxing would be a good idea.
2) cannot STAND a man who: shaves his pits/shaves his pubic region/shaves his chest and tummy etc. i find it disgustingly effeminate - yuck! i know a lot of chickies like smooth hairless guys, but i like a man to look like one, and ya just tend to slip and slide off the hairless dudes.
There's something extra-sexxxy-special about finding the PERFECT hair-distribution factor on a man.. especially when the hair is downy-soft, not scant, yet not gorilla-esque either. if a guy is getting a bit hairy, trimming is highly appreciated.
C) i do not get that comment about the quim being unhygienic and unhealthy if not hair-free or trimmed. what's with that? you must must must, hairless or not, be fastidiously clean every day, that's all. i do agree, it doesn't look pretty and may look gross.. but dirty? nah.