Hanne said:I don't think the most I've ever spend on a single item amounts to very much.
I feel squemish buying expensive designer clothes because I don't really earn that much..
My husband on the other hand, who is also interested in fashion, earns well and feels guilt-free when it comes to spending money on designer items.
He coherced me into getting my first designer pieces (..the guilt of spending so much of his, now our money, has after the first 2 pieces become less acute..but it's still there) so I never splash out on expensive designer pieces without hearing what he thinks of it first.
When buying a designer skirt I can't help but think what we could have done with the money instead
Go on a luxurious getaway weekend etc ...when we get to be 80..I hardly think we'll be discussing that fab dress I bought..but rather our adventures together.
Don't get me wrong, I think it's great that some are so economically secure that they can splash on designer items like others splash on grocery items...I think we all dream of that...but IMO if your cashflow does have limits, being a slave to expensive fashion labels to such an extend that only that will do and other areas of your life suffers from a lacking cashflow is just sad.
Hanne, what a refreshing comment...thank you for your input! I have a good job and could spend more extravagantly, but as you said, I prefer to spend my money in other ways, especially to go on exotic vacations. My memories of South America, Africa, Europe and Asia...sigh....I would not trade those for a room full of designer clothes. Right now, I really want these Choo heels, but I plan on buying me and my husband plane tickets to Paris instead.
But... I still DO love clothes, bags and shoes! I think the most I have spent was about $500 on a piece and I have done that several times - a beaded caftan in St. Barts, a See by Chloe silk dress in NYC that the dry cleaners "lost", and my J. Crew Super 110's suits that I wear to work every day. And once I spent about $400 on a pair of Donald J. Pliner boots in NYC and the heel broke off them two months later. Macy's did give me a full refund though! Goes to show you don't always get top quality when you shell out for expensive items.