Firstly, just to clarify...I don't read Buzzfeed. It wouldn't have made any difference either way imo, but it seems this is used as a detraction (or put-down) in many 'pro' arguments on this forum. It's getting old really fast!
Secondly, I think what you're failing to understand is how opinions are formed. You're making the mistake of assuming that everyone opposing that image is clutching their pearls, or 'conditioned' to scream 'outrage' for the faintest sight of subversion. Not true! Do you go to mainstream clubs, do you ever hang out with straight all-male circles and hear the type of chatter which goes around, do you watch straight p*rn generated by men for men, read the news, or are you even familiar with the struggles most young women face? Factor in all these influences and maybe you'd be inclined to have a little bit more empathy to at least try and comprehend why some regard that image as glamorising r*pe/violence.
Same applies to the R Kelly shot. Context is everything. If he was shot on his own, no allusions to paedophilia would've been mentioned, I'm sure. But for many of us who are familiar with his history, a very clear image was etched and stored subconsciously at the time. So the moment we'd see him with a young girl, of course that image will be revisited. Does that mean we are unable to regard anything he does with a young-looking girl without bias? Maybe. But the same would apply to a convicted paedophile, so why must there be a distinction? With such sensitive issues the imperfect human thought-processing doesn't always allow for fair and logical thinking. Count yourself lucky that you're one of the few who just see the image for what it is....
I personally feel your comments are out of touch. But then I'm sure you'd think even less about my thoughts, so perhaps we should just agree to disagree.
I will agree with you that the 'outrage brigade' in general have reached fever pitch, and that in some cases it's rather exasperating. But it's important not to be dismissive and to look at every single case and see which is justified, and which isn't.