Ce'nedra said:
On a side note, i always wondered that if Brad was cheating on Jennifer with another woman (instead of Angelina), would everyone have hated her?
Sometimes i get the feeling that people are taking this adultery incident so lightly just because its the well loved Angelina.
No bashing, just something i was thinking of
My attitude would be the same if Brad had left his wife for another woman. Even if he had left her for someone I hate because I don't see what he/they did as cheating. Cheating is motivated by lust, what they did was motivated by love IMO.
The key thing is that you don't choose who you fall in love with and nothing, even a wedding, guarrantee that you will love and be loved eternally (that's why I'm against weddings, i don't want to promise something I can't guarantee)
I think that Jennifer and Brad were in an unhappy marriage. Brad felt out of love with his wife for unknown reasons (maybe because he wanted children but we don't know for sure) and then when he met Angelina he felt attracted to her.
I don't think he wanted to make Jenifer suffer. I'm sure he would've prefered to still be in love with her but he wasn't. I believe that people have the right to be happy. Why would you stay in a relationship if you don't love your partner anymore? Maybe they tried to make this relationship but it didn't work?
I think it's likely since Courtney cox said in the Vanity Fair interview that Brad told to Jen that he fell attracted to someone or something of that matter.
In fact I don't think it's morally wrong to fall out of love with your partner because you can't control how you fell. Brad did the right thing: instead of cheating on his wife he left her because he didn't love her anymore and he didn't think he could save their marriage.
I suppose Angelina and him became friend, he confided in her about his problems in his marriage ect ... and they were both attracted to each other and they must have agreed that he had to left Jenifer if they wanted to be a couple.
That's why Angelina said that after seeing how her father cheated on her mother she could never be in a relationship with a married man.
Of course all this is my opinion. I could be wrong but this is how I see things. I just wanted to say that because contrary to your belief because I'm an Angelina fan doesn't mean I'm taking adultery lightly. I despise cheaters but I don't think divorcing/leaving your partner because you're in love with someone else is wrong.
ETA : hahaha I was re reading that and it's funny how we talk about these people that we don't even know. I feel stupid but yeah ...
flower: . Regardless of what I think of them together or seperatly, that was very well said and I completly agree with you! Both Jennifer and Brad have said in interviews that they don't know if people are meant to spend their lives with only one person.... I myself understand this quote more and more everyday (and I'm married). Remember her quote where she said "I don't know if he's the love of my life, but he's one of my great loves"... or something to that nature.
