Anna Nicole Smith Dies at 39

[FashionJunkie]

So the problem is the friggin' "so what". well to tell you the truth i won't take it back. Because that's the way i think. SO WHAT? people die (ITS SAD I KNOW) but what? There is nothing you can do. It happened it was awful but it did. WON'T change, you have to move on. You have to deal with it. It's sad but he isn't coming back. She's not the first who lost someone, i'm not the first who lost someone, etc. You move on. Otherwise everytime someone dies his family will commit suicide and that pretty much means that in about a week, let's say month, we won't exist.

 

[luna minor]

I'm disappointed that the mods here havent removed FashionJunkie's posts from this thread. let Ms. Smith have a thread to remember her life thats free from such wasted negative energy on the aggressor's part. Such negative energy is really bad karma and I hate to see this thread become so vicious. Please dont discriminate, mods, and remove FJ's posts.

 

[Faith Akiyama]

^^Yes, and this thread will be pushed back into the least seen areas of tFS in no time. But for now, we can at least express our condolences for a short period of time. It is what everyone at least deserves, even if it doesn't happen for all. No one is dwelling on it, everyone just wants to say good-bye; everyone is moving on.

 

[FashionJunkie]

If you had shown some peaceful retorts instead

I said it before i don't sugar-coat. I say thinks as they are, if the truth is harsh then it will sound harsh, but that doesn't make me a bad person. Because i may be the one who will tell you that your father died suck it up (exact words), but i will be there holding your hand. So if someone's being realistic that doesn't mean he doesn't care.

 

[Faith Akiyama]

So if someone's being realistic that doesn't mean he doesn't care.

Yes, but at least there is still a proper way to express that kind of "care."

 

[christina126]

Supposedly the baby is with Howards mom and sister in the bahamas. And one of his friends said that he saw Howard yesterday and he was "histerical".

 

[snowqueen]

If they murdered her ok, but if she commited suicide it's pathetic. She has a little baby, she can't be THAT self-centered. She lost her son, SO WHAT? Suck it up, that's life, deal with it.

but i must admit fashionjunkie has a point about one thing...
*to have a 5 month old baby, and commit suicide (if indeed she did...and we may never know...) is in some ways a very selfish act....

this is not to say that we should not have compassion for anna...
or that we should judge, or blame, or pretend we know what it feels like...
none of those things are going to help...
she had a very tragic life.....but there are people in this world who would give ANYTHING for a second chance at life, and mothers who would give ANYTHING to spend just a few more moments with their children....
*understanding that, it is incredibly difficult to get your head around why a mother would go through with taking her own life, especially knowing that her little baby was waiting for her....

i'm not saying it was in fact suicide....just hypothetically speaking....

Oh come on if someone is sucidal they arent in the right frame of mind or in well health oviously .. because yes depression is an illness... oviously she wasnt in the mind to think about things clearly .. all i can say to you is .. you are someone who clearly has had no experience with depression or sucicide etc. and you should count your self very very lucky. Yes its hard to get your head around b ut hopefull you will never have to.
ALso if someone comited euphonasia (is that even how its spelt ??) to put them out of pain ... would you also call them selfish ?? because in a way depression is as much pain etc... and people see suicide as the only way out.

Suicide is always a selfish act, in my opinion.

This actually sickened me and brought me to tears .. i have personally dealt with sucide and the grief etc. and i would say its far from a selfish act, as if its come so far your sucidal your never in the right mind... but it is your opinion and your intitled to that of course

Also mods i think this thread should be deleted its getting really really off topic .. i mean what was intended as a post telling people about anna's death has become a mass arguement .. i think we should end this before people end up getting hurt .. or at least cut all the not on topic posts.

 

[Joseph26]

I'm disappointed that the mods here havent removed FashionJunkie's posts from this thread. let Ms. Smith have a thread to remember her life thats free from such wasted negative energy on the aggressor's part. Such negative energy is really bad karma and I hate to see this thread become so vicious. Please dont discriminate, mods, and remove FJ's posts.

I agree 100%, FJ is very disrespectful

 

[FashionJunkie]

^what's disrespectful?

 

[Joseph26]

Oh come on if someone is sucidal they arent in the right frame of mind or in well health oviously .. because yes depression is an illness... oviously she wasnt in the mind to think about things clearly .. all i can say to you is .. you are someone who clearly has had no experience with depression or sucicide etc. and you should count your self very very lucky. Yes its hard to get your head around b ut hopefull you will never have to.

you stole my thoughts from my mind, karma for you.

 

[Joseph26]

^what's disrespectful?

disrespectful: adj. Having or exhibiting a lack of respect; rude and discourteous. source:www.thefreedictionary.com/

 

[snowqueen]

WhiteLinen no one said that people who commit suicide did that because they had nothing better to do. Of course they were suffering, BUT they are so many people suffering, even worse cases than the one you imagine. AND of course we are not all the same, some people are not strong enough, but when you have a kid you HAVE to be strong.

Yes this is what you get rammed down your throat your a new mum be strong etc. which is why people get post nateal depression etc. anyways here i go going off topic now

 

[FashionJunkie]

yes i know what it means i meant what was direspectful (from my posts)

 

[BaroqueRockstar]

So the problem is the friggin' "so what". well to tell you the truth i won't take it back. Because that's the way i think. SO WHAT? people die (ITS SAD I KNOW) but what? There is nothing you can do. It happened it was awful but it did. WON'T change, you have to move on. You have to deal with it. It's sad but he isn't coming back. She's not the first who lost someone, i'm not the first who lost someone, etc. You move on. Otherwise everytime someone dies his family will commit suicide and that pretty much means that in about a week, let's say month, we won't exist.

yes i know what it means i meant what was direspectful (from my posts)

if you really thought "so what" and didn't care, you wouldn't be here. it's fine not the here (because you're absolutely right about there's nothing that can't be done), BUT don't be intentionally disrespectful and tell the world they shouldn't care.

 

[snowqueen]

Can i also just say we dont know about the cause of death yet no one does .. so i think we should not talk of sucicide or murder etc. as ive personally dealt with sucicide and i saw how much the gossip and talk etc. destroyed the family .. for the sake of anna's memory and family i think we should just asume nothing as of get as its very disrespectufll

 

[Joseph26]

This actually sickened me and brought me to tears .. i have personally dealt with sucide and the grief etc. and i would say its far from a selfish act, as if its come so far your sucidal your never in the right mind...

don't be sad I completely understand you, I know what you mean.

 

[FashionJunkie]

BaroqueRockstar NO NO NO NO, by so what i don't mean don't care, i mean that it cannot be changed and you should move on. Of course you will cry and you will be sad, but you can't stop your life. That's what i meant.

 

[Faith Akiyama]

^Ay, see? I don't think most people could've possibly interpreted it that way from your initial post

By now you've already antagonized yourself...unfortunate but true. Ay.

And come on, no one's "stopping" their life for this

 

[luna minor]

if you really thought "so what" and didn't care, you wouldn't be here. it's fine not the here (because you're absolutely right about there's nothing that can't be done), BUT don't be intentionally disrespectful and tell the world they shouldn't care.

I agree completely. FashionJunkie, you're very tacky and without any respect for a living human being, a woman, a lonely soul of a person who has left this world. You say "People die every day" blahblahblah...Miss Smith was one of these people, and she deserves to be remembered and respected like any other living person who passes on. You're a hypocrite, and without any class. Why waste your time in this thread taking up space amongst people who choose to be respectful towards the woman? You're obviously seeking attention otherwise you wouldnt be doing it.

 

[FashionJunkie]

That's exaclty what i'm saying. I was talking about Anna (IF SHE COMMITED SUICIDE) that it wasn't right(yes pathetic my choice of adjective) to stop her life (commit suicide) because of her son's death because he had a little girl to take care of.