no, no and
no.
it's not really about some mental aesthetic (partly but not entirely!), it's about hygiene really, I understand if someone in Europe, Siberia or whatever refuse to wax (or shave), it's perfectly normal as there aren't many chances of sweating like a wrestler and you're covered up most of the time, but for people in America who happen to live near the desert, I think it's disgusting not to wax.. especially if you don't drink that much water and you're bound to have a 'stronger' odor, all the sweat will not follow its natural course and will confine there, in your armpit hair!. which I'm thinking, it eventually leads to blocked pores and stuff, non?. It's really gross. and it's not even 'nice'-looking hair anyway, it's like having pubic hair on your cheeks. but I know I might be drifting here.