lokert said:well, my experience is that people like to look good, and when they want to be sexy, they do it first for themselves.
For me beautiful clothes are there to make me feel beautiful,I don`t wear a skirt because it`s beautiful,I`m not a clothes hanger,I wear it to make me feel sexy.You don't need to objectify yourself in order to feel beautiful and for example like wearing beautiful clothing.
To be sexy(IMO)=to be attractive to somebody from a sexual point of view.Define sexy. Why should people look sexy (clothes etc.) if they feel sexy and have a healthy sex life?
That is so true.mmmm, last time i checked, women were primarily sexy for themselves, then for the social status in their group of female friends, then eventually for a particular guy, and lastly for the rest of the society.



gia0202 said:its because most women wear the wrong bra size---i was told. with no-wire bras, it is not crucial to have well-fitting bra, but many lg breasted women refuse to wear the right size(denial, shame, ignorance) so squeeze into too tight bras. these bras impede lymphatic fluid flow----which is crucial to breast health.