I was very young when i got married i was still at the Uni, we were living together for ages I guess it not even crossed my mind the idea of an engagement ring, I think I did not even knew people gave them. Anyway if my husband, boyfriend then, would have got one it had to come from our budget and to me that would have been a ridiculous expense, I still think it is.
My mother gave us our wedding rings but we chose them , we both agreed that we wanted something like our parents and grandparents had, a simple quite thick gold ring, we did not even saw other options we knew what we wanted. Something solid, old fashioned and without fuss. 7 years on I still think it was the best option, and never saw any other wedding ring that would tempt me.