Sunday Gazette
The Sunday Book Club: Story of Grace and Rainier is no simple fairy tale
Article from: Sunday Gazette-Mail Article date: June 8, 2003 Author: Regina C. Davis More results for: grace kelly
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I HAVE a confession to make: I love reading about the glamorous, exciting lives of celebrities. People magazine, Eonline's "The Awful Truth" and the occasional Globe or Star (usually while at my hairdresser's, where no one can see me) - yes, it's one of many guilty pleasures.
That's one of the reasons why when it came time to choose the Sunday Book Club's summer reading titles, this month's selection, "Once Upon a Time: Behind the Fairy Tale of Princess Grace and Prince Rainier" by J. Randy Taraborrelli, immediately caught my eye.
I received several notable suggestions. There certainly is no shortage of interesting biographies on the best-sellers lists lately, including books by former first lady and now Sen. Hillary Clinton and Jordan's Queen Noor.
But this is summer after all, and I wanted something fun yet refined, something a little more glamorous. Enter Taraborrelli's biography of Monaco's most famous royal couple.
Taraborelli, who also wrote a well-received biography of the Kennedy women, "Jackie, Ethel, Joan: Women of Camelot," has written an intriguing and lengthy profile of a marriage that made headlines all over the world for decades. After all, what could be more romantic than the marriage of a beautiful American movie star to the handsome prince of a wealthy, exclusive principality?
TARABORRELLI begins his book by delving into the unique - and often nasty - family dynamics that influenced the early years of both Grace and Rainier. As someone only vaguely familiar with this story, it was interesting to learn that Grace Kelly, the unruffled, sophisticated and classic movie star, was deeply hurt and often driven by her father's constant disapproval.
In fact, many of the friends and family members Taraborrelli refers to in the book felt that Grace's main motivation for accepting Rainer's marriage proposal was the attention it garnered from her father.
Rainier is at least as intriguing as Grace. It's easy to understand America's fascination with the life of one of our most respected film stars. But on this side of the Atlantic at least, Rainier's story always seems to take second stage. Taraborrelli's portrait of Rainier reveals a complex man deeply committed to his country, and an individual who in real life was not the dashing fairy- tale prince he is often made out to be.
Taraborrelli's book is also an interesting lesson on history and politics, as each played a significant part in how the marriage came about. The government of Monaco and the laws that dictated Rainier's decisions with regard to his personal life are little known parts of the story.
For example, according to a centuries-old treaty with France, Monaco is actually considered a self-governing principality and not an actual country, with the provision that if any of its rulers fail to produce an heir, control will revert back to France.
So it was imperative that Rainier marry. At the time of his proposal, Grace Kelly was only one of several names being considered. During their courtship, doctors also had to verify that Grace was capable of giving birth to an heir to the throne.
And then there was the small matter of a $2 million dowry.
Needless to say, part of what makes this book so hard to put down are the many twists to the tale and the little details many readers might not be familiar with.
Despite its length (432 pages), Taraborrelli's book is an easy read - he has a talent for explaining complex affairs of state or family relationships in a way that's interesting and easy to follow. Grace's death in a 1982 car accident and the turbulent and often scandalous lives of her children and Rainier's life in the years since add tragedy to the romance.
It's one of those rare books that are truly hard to put down.
Excerpt from 'Once Upon a Time' Grace learned early on that Rainier wasnt the easiest person to live with. She came from a world in which she usually got her way; she had been a pampered Hollywood star, after all. However, at the Palace, she found herself playing the most subservient role of her life, spouse to a man who was not only ruler of a principality, but also of a palace, his home much like her father had been in his house. In his view, he was never wrong, again like Jack Kelly. If a dinner party went on too long, he would sometimes fall asleep at the table. Once, the Prince and Princess were entertaining the elderly Queen Victoria Eugenie of Spain, often referred to as Queen Ena, who was also Prince Alberts godmother. As the Queen who was the mother of the Spanish pretender Don Juan told a long story about how she was almost assassinated on her wedding day in Madrid in 1906, Princess Grace tried to act captivated. She hoped to keep the Queens
eyes on her because, seated right next to the Queen was Rainier, sound asleep. Later, when Grace challenged Rainier about it, he defended himself by saying that he and Grace had heard Enas big story a dozen times, and I can sleep anywhere I wish, because its my Palace. He would blow up. Oh boy, would he ever! said Graces sister Lizanne good-naturedly. Now that was something to see.