I would never called him a " tortured soul" simply because that phrase is just so... you know? I do understand what you mean though.
When I was a kid and Nirvana were everywhere, I thought of him like how my older sister and my cousins etc thought of him - kind of like Sid Vicious!
Then when I was a teenager and Nirvana were gone and the world full of conspiracy theories, I did have the image of Kurt as this tortured rocker who was f*cked around by his evil wife, who had him killed.
Now that I've actually taken the time to read about Kurt though and form my own opinion ( the ones above were influenced strongly by siblings and the media) I've come to think of him as more of a real person. He wasn't depressed all the time, but he was battling a lot of demons and that's tiring. He had an AMAZING sense of humor, he was unbelievably creative, and he was very in love with his family.
However, he lived his life in constant physical pain ( not "artistic" pain), from his scoliosis to his stomach problems to his eventual drug addictions, and the Cobain men have a long history of suicide.
He's life wasn't a sad story. That's what I think we learn from ' About a Son'. It just had a sad ending. But, I mean, it's what he chose and I think his fans should respect that rather than not even allowing him the dignity of killing himself, you know? Oh well.
What do you guys think?