Sandra Bullock (Please put all Sandra news here)

[shoesexy]

In the end, though, it's Sandra who will have to look in the mirror and ask herself why she chose such a ( unsurprisingly ) low character partner.

He's never been the guy people wanted to introduce to their sister.

 

[lizbabe09]

^ if she felt so horrible why is she releasing their text messages and giving interviews?

Good point, though her best friend is also going out giving interviews with E! about it.

 

[NakedIfIWantTo]

^oh yeah definitely.

 

[NakedIfIWantTo]

In the end, though, it's Sandra who will have to look in the mirror and ask herself why she chose such a ( unsurprisingly ) low character partner.

He's never been the guy people wanted to introduce to their sister.

oops I mean to quote this

 

[FrenchCactus]

In the end, though, it's Sandra who will have to look in the mirror and ask herself why she chose such a ( unsurprisingly ) low character partner.

He's never been the guy people wanted to introduce to their sister.

Agree 100%. Again, I feel sorry for her and nobody deserves to be treated that way. But even if everyone is attacking her husband, the whole thing also says a lot about her and her poor judgement. I'm not sure she's going to get out of this as popular as she was even if she holds her head up high, because she's going to be associated to this for a good while.

 

[Cammy]

I heard she watched Sandra's speech at the Oscar's and felt "horrible" for having sleeping with her husband.

she watched the speech and thought.. this is when i will make the most $$$

 

[Paws]

^That's for sure.

I read somewhere that this woman said that she didn't know Jesse was still married (was separated)..........for the last 11 months.

I mean come on......Sandra has been in the press for months giving interviews about her professional and personal life, let alone the press about the court case with Jesse's daughter.

What a cop out. She knew.

 

[Erin]

Leading up to the Oscars, there were so many people.com stories about Sandra, as if she and her people felt she was entitled to an Oscar and were desperate to turn an average (as in "normal") gal into this perfect A-list actress. She wanted press and she got it.

It's pretty ironic how things have turned around so quickly. She was naive to forget that they build you up to burn you down. People.com used to be all about Sandy's Oscar race, and now their top 5 stories are all about Sandy's filthy husband. I feel sorry for her, but knowing her husband's past, you don't attract media attention on yourself knowing that dirt will get dug up anytime soon. Last week she was the Oscar-winner and now she's the naive country girl who got married to the p*rn-loving pig.

Oh, c'mon, nobody deserves this. I don't think "her people" were attempting to make Sandra look like a "perfect A-list actress."

Does this story make her any less perfect? What, the fact that the man she loves cheated on her? HE'S the bad one, not her.

I don't think she's naive. That's not fair to say. She's an actress - there will always be media attention... and everybody who's married thinks that it will last forever.

You're writing as if she's lashed out against the media after news broke of his cheating...

 

[carmen_kass]

Does this story make her any less perfect? What, the fact that the man she loves cheated on her? HE'S the bad one, not her.

Unfortunately she's the bigger star in the relationship so the focus will be on her, and it'll be worse because she's a woman (i.e. damaged goods)...In the weeks ahead we can expect dozens of pictures of her in tabloids looking miserable with captions like "Why can't she find the right guy", "Why can't she get it right in love", "Sandra alone at 45, will she find love again", "Sandra's shocking 2 lbs weight gain, is heartbreak causing her to over eat"?

With any luck however she won't be the next Jen Aniston spinster story for the tabloids.

 

[FrenchCactus]

^^ I agree with you that nobody deserves this, her included.
Yeah of course when you marry someone you never think this could happen. But when you know a little about his past, you can't be surprised that he cheated on her with such a . That's what so sad about this story.

You can't deny Bullock had WAY more media presence in the Oscar race than the other nominees, so that was obviously something she desired. She talked extensively about her husband in interviews & speechs. What I meant is it's weird how they were in such positive light, and now not so much, in such a short amount of time.
Even if she's not to blame for the affair, it never serves you to be the "victim" of such a prick. The media is digging up dirt and exposing his past (ex-wife is a p*rn star, etc) and as his wife she's now associated to all that dirt. People will think of her as the girl you got cheated on with a .
I'm curious to see how she'll handle it & wish her good luck.

 

[magpie]

I don't see how Jesse James' cheating reflects badly on Sandra Bullock. Do you think worse of Elin Nordegren because of Tiger Woods' behaviour? I don't - I feel sorry for her. Just like now I feel sorry for Sandra Bullock. Cheating reflects badly on the cheater. I think it's misogynistic to suggest that somehow Sandra is "damaged goods" because her husband cheated on her. Where's the logic in that? If she's guilty of anything it's for having made a bad judgement about someone, or for being so much in love she was blind to his obvious faults. I mean - you have control over your own actions but you don't have any control over your partner's. All you have is trust. (And it's not a bad quality to be able to trust in someone else.)

I have to say that when they got married it made me like Sandra Bullock more - it seemed like genuine love because she wasn't looking for someone to form a big power-couple alliance with. So now he's cheated on her, and violated her trust, and publicly humiliated her. It's horrible. But I don't see how any of the blame can be put on her.

 

[Chloe Parks]

I can't believe her damn husband. He doesn't deserve her. She's amazing

 

[CharlottefromCA]

I don't see how Jesse James' cheating reflects badly on Sandra Bullock. Do you think worse of Elin Nordegren because of Tiger Woods' behaviour? I don't - I feel sorry for her. Just like now I feel sorry for Sandra Bullock. Cheating reflects badly on the cheater. I think it's misogynistic to suggest that somehow Sandra is "damaged goods" because her husband cheated on her. Where's the logic in that? If she's guilty of anything it's for having made a bad judgement about someone, or for being so much in love she was blind to his obvious faults. I mean - you have control over your own actions but you don't have any control over your partner's. All you have is trust. (And it's not a bad quality to be able to trust in someone else.)

I think this is what most people are saying. Definitely Sandra isn't to blame here, doing so is ludicrous. Can a tiger really change their stripes..?

 

[LUXXX]

I don't understand why people are saying Sandra should be blaming herself for the man she chose, by all accounts she truly believed he loved her. She kept saying how great he treated her, I actually believe that she was blind-sided by this (sorry for the pun).

 

[enkeli05]

I feel really sorry for her. After everything she has done for him, he just goes and cheats on her? What an *******!!

 

[ChillChaser]

Quick Question: Does anyone in this thread NOT think she's going to leave him? I mean, she adopted his youngest daughter, right? And she's been treating the rest of his children and family as her own for the last six years. She might take the Hilary route and "stand by her man."

But then again, I think of how Halle Berry adopted Eric Benet's daughter when they got married and you see how that one turned out. It's like deja vu.

 

[dajrekshn]

what happened with Eric's daughter and Halle after the divorce, i keep reading about it...but ppl are just saying the way you said it, what happened?

 

[LUXXX]

Sandra never adopted his daughter, she simply helped him gain full custody because the mother is living in a half-way house. She has no actual rights to his daughter even though she has helped raise her and provide a good environment. Now, it looks like Jesse could lose custody because of his antics and this impending Nazi photo coming out of him.

 

[dajrekshn]

that poor,poor kid. :sad: it's all so idiotic.

on ONTD, as this news broke, there was a whole debate if Sandra could've known this Nazi stuff about him (and/or agreed about it) or it was hidden from her too.

 

[Harumi]

Sandra has no legal right over the kids, even Sunny. Which means if and when she divorces Jesse, she can only see them if he allows it.

Quick Question: Does anyone in this thread NOT think she's going to leave him?

I find this increasingly difficult.
Even if Sandra was able to get over the fact that he publicly humiliated her with the trashiest skank I have ever seen for the sake of the kids she obviously loves and cares for; staying now that Jesse's White Supremacist links have been revealed would pretty much be career suicide for her.
The public would not forgive her remaining loyal to a Neo-Nazi.

I she cares anything about her career and reputation, she will leave him.