BLANKS: When you have your own family, you find your parents become your peers. Has that changed your attitude to your dad over the years?
MCCARTNEY: You know, I accept that he is a dad, too, and he has five children now, and I accept that that's a lot of kids. I guess I do have empathy. And I have a lot of curiosity as to how my mom and dad did it and how that changes as you grow up. I have more questions for him now that I am a parent and I have more understanding of it.
BLANKS: Do you make a point of asking those questions when you're with him? My dad died when I was young and I think about all the things I never got to ask him.
MCCARTNEY: Well, I think about that with my mom. Obviously, being a woman, I've probably got a couple more questions for her than I do for dad. I feel like a different person since my mom passed away, like I'm driving a ship with my husband alongside me and we're leading these four children into unknown waters. And at the same time, I have this other little family that is Stella McCartney Limited, and I'm on a journey with them as well. I feel like I'm in the thick of it. I mean, the eye of the storm. Sometimes I'll get into the bath with all my kids and they'll look at me and say, "Oh, it's just us! It's just our family in the bath!" And I remember that feeling, when it was just our family. It's such a powerful moment. I grew up with the six of us, and now our family's got six, so I'm very aware of the numbers and the way it slots together.
BLANKS: Do you think you've re-created your own childhood subconsciously?
MCCARTNEY: Probably . . . Subconsciously, yeah. I mean, a lot of people do tend to re-create the balance of their family.
BLANKS: And you grew up on a farm when you were a kid. Now you've got one, too.
MCCARTNEY: It's my favorite place to be. In a field on a horse, with my kids on little horses behind me. We rescued three ponies from New Forest [in Hampshire, England]. They round up the wild ponies and they auction them for dog food and everything, so we rescued three, and that's what they ride. We're having to break them in. They're really cute. They're wild and hairy and this little [Indicates a horse that's knee-high to a grasshopper] . . .
BLANKS: Where does the riding thing come from with you?
MCCARTNEY: My mom. She rode [in dressage competitions] when she was younger. My mom was obsessed with horses. She and dad rode all the time. He still does.
BLANKS: Can you see the changes Alasdhair has made in you?
MCCARTNEY: Oh, every day I see them. He's an amazing man. I'm very much in love with him.
BLANKS: Do you feel it was anything as banal as him taming you?
MCCARTNEY: Oh, yeah, he might have had a moment of that. . . [laughs] Was I that wild? When you find the person that you settle down with, I guess you mellow. They are taming you, aren't they? Or you're taming them. For me, it was a moment of surrender. You just sort of accept the next day of your life.
BLANKS: Were you surprised?
MCCARTNEY: Yeah. I find everything surprising. But I don't think I put a great deal of thought into the process. I do go with the flow a bit. There's a side to me that recognizes sometimes life has its own path. Perhaps I wasn't surprised by Alasdhair and me. If anything I was just very responsive to it.
BLANKS: Was it love at first sight?
MCCARTNEY: It was pretty close to that. We definitely had chemistry pretty early on. I mean, we met and then we were on a date that evening.
BLANKS: How much time do you actually spend away from home?
MCCARTNEY: I had a four-day rule when I first had Miller [her oldest son] and then it slowly went to three days and two days. I get really agitated when I'm away from the kids for too long. I'm excited to have gotten to where I can take the kids with me now sometimes.
BLANKS: But now that the business is so global, aren't there many more demands?
MCCARTNEY: Yeah, work's pretty full-on right now. But 2012 was always going to be a big year for us.
BLANKS: When Lee [Alexander McQueen] died and when John [Galliano] imploded, people blamed the overwhelming pressure of their jobs. Do you believe that's what happened?
MCCARTNEY: I'm sure there were many factors. I don't think anyone can give an exact reason. Yeah, there's a lot of pressure in our industry. We all feel it. But I think there's a lot of pressure in a lot of industries. Sometimes the fashion industry can get a bit kind of isolated and it's all "Oooh! It's so relentless!" But I don't see our industry as the only one like that. But I do think that personality comes into play a lot. I also try not to take myself too seriously. When I feel myself getting nervous and stressed and self-absorbed, I try to just go, "Oh, come on."
BLANKS: And what makes you feel like that?
MCCARTNEY: Moments when you feel the pressure. For me, the pressure is when you employ a lot of people and you have family that you want to look after. I felt it on my first show. It obviously didn't go at all well, and I felt very responsible for all the people who had invested time and energy. That was more my disappointment than any personal feeling. At the same time, I'm just so happy and proud when we have rave reviews like we did recently. I very much believe—I'm not particularly good at it-that you can't just believe all the good stuff. If you believe the good stuff, you've got to believe the bad stuff, too.
BLANKS: Do you read your own reviews?
MCCARTNEY: Sometimes. I prefer them if they're good.
BLANKS: When you were young, and Paul would read something that somebody said about him, did his reaction to things make any impression on you?
MCCARTNEY: Yeah, but like any parent, you know? I don't think my dad really read his reviews. We never bought newspapers, ever. Ever. I don't buy the newspapers now. So I have to say we grew up really isolated from that side of our life.
Maybe in a bubble. You had moments when it was all in your face, and then most of the time it really wasn't part of the daily routine. It was just Dad's job. He would come home, he'd made a song, you would listen to it, you liked it, you didn't like it, it went on an album, the album got released, it pretty much charted instantly, we pretty much always saw him on the telly—it's just what happened. My dad jokes that when I was young we were in Scotland and he was on telly and I turned around and I'm like . . . [laughs] "You're Paul McCartney!" It was a bit weird. And I remember another time when I said to him, "Dad, put that song in the charts, make it go to number one," and he was like, "It doesn't work like that." So I think we were always connecting the dots since I was a kid.
BLANKS: But was there ever a moment when you were into something else and he'd play his music and you'd be all, "Dad, that is so . . ."
MCCARTNEY: Embarrassing? Yeah, but you know, the thing is, I've always had quite a high level of respect for my parents. Also, you'd listen to it so much that you just got it. It's like seeing the same dress every night. Your mom's a fashion designer and she brings home the same piece of knitwear, and so your opinion of something evens out because you're seeing the same jacket every day.
BLANKS: With your own kids, are you conscious of keeping things from them? Or would you rather they knew the world?
MCCARTNEY: What was that line in The Descendants? "You give your children enough money to do something, but not enough to do nothing." My husband and I looked at each other during that film and we were like, "That is the ultimate." I don't know, maybe I'm overly paranoid that they're gonna be spoiled. But I want to keep them going as kids for as long as I can. I want to keep them innocent and free.
BLANKS: The Olympic Games is a big part of your year, and it's not just an incredible professional endorsement, but it's the first time anyone has attempted what you're doing.
MCCARTNEY: Yeah, no designer has worked with the entire team before. Between the Olympic and the Paralympic teams, that's 900 athletes, which is thousands upon thousands of products. The magnitude of that is way out of my comfort zone. What's most mind-blowing about it is I'm serving the nation a bit, serving the team, trying to bring them together.Blanks: Some of them have very special needs.
MCCARTNEY: Well, all of them have very special needs. They're all trying to win gold medals.
BLANKS: I imagine the Olympics are a pinch-me moment. What are your others?
MCCARTNEY: Babies, marriage . . . Losing my mom. That was a punch-me moment. I think the moment that I'm very proud of is building a business without using animals. And, hopefully, changing people's perception of how you can do luxury fashion.
BLANKS: You feel you have?
MCCARTNEY: I might before I die . . . [laughs] I don't think I have, no. But I think I am definitely in the process of doing something very different from other luxury brands. I did always say I wanted to infiltrate from within. That was always my reasoning behind going into partnership with a luxury group that uses a lot of leather in their products. I'm also a real believer that just doing a little something is really a lot better than doing a lot of nothing.
BLANKS: Do you believe in destiny?
MCCARTNEY: I don't know. I'm a great believer in going with the flow. But I believe in luck, too. I feel very lucky. But at the same time, I do work hard. I think deep down I'm spiritual, but there's nothing I practice. I can do a bit of TM [transcendental meditation] when I remember to. And I went through a period of doing yoga, but it was Ashtanga, and it was much more hardcore than chilling out.
BLANKS: When you think about your dad going off to India with the Maharishi [Mahesh Yogi] in the '60s, it makes you realize how trendy a lot of it is.
MCCARTNEY: I know. Did you see Martin Scorsese's George Harrison documentary? I was like, Wow, they really got a lot of flak for that.
BLANKS: What did you think of the film?
MCCARTNEY: I loved it. Martin Scorsese is a genius. Olivia Harrison is a ****ing cool chick. I wanted to cry when Dhani [Harrison, George's son] was reading out George's parts. I thought it was really a beautiful tribute to an amazing man. It's really important that people know more about George, because obviously he didn't get as much attention as the others.
BLANKS: You think they'll ever do one for Ringo?
MCCARTNEY: Yes . . . [laughs] Definitely. I thought Ringo was really cool in it!
BLANKS: Is there a children-of-The Beatles thing?
MCCARTNEY: Yeah, we're all family. We're all related deep down.
BLANKS: And a children-of-children-of-The Beatles thing?
MCCARTNEY: I don't know about that. We haven't done that quite yet. They're all too little. But there will be. We just need to all get together. But there's definitely enough children of children of Beatles. Ringo's daughter Lee [Starkey] just had triplets. Jay [Starkey], her brother, has got four boys. Dhani will have children soon, I'm sure. He's like the little brother.